Do whatever floats your boat and works for you and your family, but no, perpetuating pseudoscientific myths to your children about “sex addiction” isn’t healthy or ethical. Yeesh, @nytimes.com, do better. 😬
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2026 has aged fast.
Elon Musk is a four star general in the war on women
Online stings to catch sexual predators are on the rise. A growing number are targeting ageplay kink communities, in which adults engage in role play as children. David J. Ley Ph.D.www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/...
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Absolutely amazing balloon fiesta day!! Made the full NM experience complete with a close call with a western diamondback rattlesnake during balloon retrieval. 🐍😬 @lcornelas.bsky.social @davidleyphd.bsky.social
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Who had June 5 in the bet on what day Trump and Musk would turn on each other? I know I didn’t. I’d predicted March 3.
Hearing that Jobcorps is being defunded across the country, given a week to close?
Super thrilled to help author this paper exploring the intersections between modern politics, sexual health, and ethics in psychology. Was honored to support a crew of extraordinary scholars and clinicians.
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Plus many who aren’t on Bluesky
Let us know what you think and how you are grappling with this in your work!
Unm psychology is on fire!!!
I randomly emailed an author of a paper on sexual regret, looking for a PDF. (Don’t know him, just found his email) No lie, he had just this morning been on my own website looking for info on me after reading one of my papers. He initially thought my email was some kind of auto spam. Small world.
So.
Feeling this pretty hard. Like, rigid, granite, in your face level of over exaggerated expression.
folks who believe in sex addiction see it as external to the person, separate from who they are, acting "like a drug" on a person, and not entwined with or reflective of who the person is. they really do believe these people are victims and at the control of their sexuality.
Seems like accepting a plane from a foreign country with known Russian ties and using the plane to transport the President might have some security concerns. Surely the plane might not be wired for monitoring or have secret killswitch?
G yes.
Some rando sent me a ChatGPT “analysis” of one of my articles. Was rather reassuring how inaccurate it was. Apparently ChatGPT believes “porn hijack’s dopamine systems”?
Traveling always inflames my sciatica. Yikes. Is there an airline where I could fly inverted? Or doing yoga?
also you all need to see this, because this is something I don't think *anybody* could predict for where this ad goes
Semen is not a magic fluid that gives you superpowers when retained. Can’t believe this still needs to be said. No, Abstinence Won't Increase Your Testosterone. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wome...
Utah psychologist, BYU grad, affiliated with LDS Church, author of a workbook on treating porn addiction gets caught with what? (Drumroll) yes. Child sex abuse material. And charged with exploitation of children he treated. (Not a drag queen, btw). floodlit.org/a/a837/
My book ethical porn for dicks! Also @silvaneves.bsky.social book on compulsive sexual behaviors.
Same. And yet we both survived! I predict lots of future techno panic over this aspect of AI.
Are AI generated romantic partners good or bad for us? I think it depends. But 1 in 4 young adults have used them. We have to start wrestling with this, like it or not! www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wome...
Every time someone says “COVID was a fake/fraud/panic,” I say “you took John Prine away motherfucker!” Then, well, I can’t say anything else according to my attorney. See. I can listen.
Years ago I explored writing a book with a woman who was a former Mormon polygamist sister wife. She’d entered polygamous marriage in order to be with another woman, whom she was in love with. As a lesbian, she embraced polygamy as a means to be with her female lover. Fascinating story…
