yeah I guess asking my parents to treat me and my family with dignity and respect is just too much.
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the way you write “boundary” as if it’s fake and invalid is very telling.
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Yikes that’s a LOT of projection
✅ guilt and shame over failures
✅ life not how you imagined
✅ regret over past decisions
✅ the weight of your choices
It’s like a mirror.
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this is, at best, entitled and manipulative. Based on the way you equate your relationships to a grab for power, I’m not surprised your estranged. If you were my parent, I wouldn’t want my kids around you either.
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The magic wand is there. You’re just too self-centered and narcissistic to use it.
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If as a parent, you’re more interested in being right than you are in being safe, you’re doing it wrong.
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Holy projection, Batman.
In the power dynamic between parent and child the burden of relationship repair is on the parent. So this just tells me you care more about being right than being loving.
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Must be exhausting 🏅
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No contact isn’t punishment. Your adult children just accepted the fact that you would never take any responsibility or reciprocate the effort.
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You Might be an Emotionally Immature Parent, Part 2. These resonate with anybody?
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Bring receipts & they’ll still deny it.
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Replying to @marymaryquitecontrary saying this takes courage. No contact isn’t punishment. It’s acceptance.
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Just what they need: more people feeding their narcissism and telling them their kids are sooooo mean. Ew.
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Oh no, I’m sorry, that’s incorrect. Boundaries are a valid and healthy part of any relationship. #emotionallyimmatureparents #estrangedadultchildren #creatorsearchinsights
Real convos with my parents, part 8. Yep, they really think boundaries are only for alcoholics and drug addicts. Can’t make this up.
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Children are not responsible for their parents feelings. Now say it again until it sticks.
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Adult children of emotionally immature parents will know this one by heart.
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Add it to the list of things I got from my parents 👍
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this isn’t the flex you think it is. Not only are you displaying the reasons why they probably went no contact, you’re probably just doing them a favor.
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PSA: if your apology wasn’t accepted and now you’re angry and blaming the other person, you’re doing it wrong.
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“It’s the kids” no, it’s projection.
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Replying to @Karin you apologized and they weren’t happy? Do it again. Listen and make the apology they need to feel heard and feel safe with you. And keep doing it until they feel loved. Apologies aren’t for you. They’re for them.
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Choose you. They’ll say it’s selfish. They’ll say it’s mean. It’s hurtful. It’s wrong. It’s immoral. None of that matters. Choose. You.
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Love you all!
Keep looking out for each other. Keep having each other’s backs. We’re stronger together.
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They really think we’re out here miserable without them. Like sure mom and dad I really long for the days of being shamed and gaslit at every turn. You know, the good ‘ol days.
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That’s not the flex you think it is
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Zero effort.
But lots of talk about what I should do and how I should fix it and what’s wrong with me.
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Because if you make it seem trivial then you never have to reckon with your role in it.
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Stop trying to make me pay for your choices.
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Replying to @April Collins believe it or not, I agree with you. And I think you’d be surprised to find out that most NC adults would, too.
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