He also hadn't masturbated, he realized, since the days when people thought about it as 'masturbation': that cool, frowning medico-biblical word. There'd been other words around, no doubt, but 'masturbation' was what it always felt like. Masturbation, fornication, defecation: serious words from his childhood, representing activities to be pondered before being indulged in. Nowadays it was all wanking and fucking and shitting, and no one thought twice about any of them. Well, he used shitting himself; a bit, privately. Jack, of course, talked about wanking quite casually, and fucking as well. Graham was still a little tentative about both usages. ' Wanking ', after all, was such a quiet, domestic, guiltless sort of word: it made it sound like a home craft.
Much of Before She Met Me ( Julian Barnes 1983 ) is very funny
Here an overly-precise attention to semantics and the changing of social attitudes in which this characer feels slightly left behind captures an era between David Nobbs and Amis: