Attention is the asset. An independent decides where it goes.
Posts by Jennifer Steele Mondello
Why do I get fired for this but Sidney Sweeney doesn't?
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From clubs to platforms, behavior gets moved and monetized.
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This explains what I'm talking about. It posted this morning. Thanks for reading.
Access feels like opportunity until you realize you don’t control visibility, pricing, or payment.
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Control doesn't look the way people think it does.
Even the clients come from their own situations. Outside people looking in and deciding what's going on is controlling as well.
Clubs and platforms categorize our dress and behaviors in order to profit from us. Like no nudity unless you're on stage or in a vip room. Or the difference between what you can and can't do between paywalls. They control our business that way when we use them.
The article coming out Tuesday is how the industry categorizes aspects of our business to control and profit off it.🫶
I write about power, control, and how people misunderstand both.
Public platforms show one version.
The rest lives elsewhere.
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Chapter 2 is live.
The moment someone else decided what my body meant—and everything changed after that.
This is where control starts to shift.
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Chapter 2 is live.
The moment someone else decided what my body meant—and everything changed after that.
This is where control starts to shift.
termsofsurvival.substack.com/adult-agency...
What actually makes something “sexual”?
The act?
The intention?
Or how people are taught to see it?
Good morning. :-)
Congratulations 🎊
I support sex workers (I AM one), but I also write about the parts of the industry that aren’t talked about enough. Sometimes that gets read as being anti when it’s not.
You can log on, log off, accept or decline.
None of that matters if you don’t control traffic, pricing, or visibility.
In politics the first narrative almost always wins.
After that everyone else is just arguing inside it.
Most people argue about behavior.
The real argument is about meaning behind it. Agenda.
Nothing about an act has to change for power to shift.
Only the meaning.
Whoever Sexualizes It Controls It
The meaning attached to an act often matters more than the act itself.
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Nothing about an action has to change for power to shift.
Only the meaning.
Whoever gets to define something as sexual or shameful gains control over how other people move.
This is what I'm writing about at Terms of Survival.