This sweet man picked me up from the station after a trip & met me with a block of aged Gouda. He said "I wanted to get your flowers but I know you'd love this more"

With my teammate in hospital & another on a birthday trip holiday, I did 3 people's work this last week. Died. But good to know I can pull through & focus with my adhd.

10 months into dating, boyfriend is finally making me biriyani ♥️

Yeah I hve to keep telling myself & believing it.

Dating in my 30s after a lot of trauma, heartbreaks & being hyper independent, I have to constantly remind myself that having someone take care of me sometimes is okay. Having always been a caregiver, it is strange to accept that a sweet man loves me & is going to take care of me when I'm sick.

Oh sure, sounds nice

Thanks, I guess it is :)

Just one advice to everyone getting married? Do your own makeup. I promise you, it’s 100% worth it.

My 2024 bingo did not have watching chess games & celebrating world championship win with my boyfriend

All I've wanted for the last 4 months is to go on a fucking boat. Just any boat. Apparently that's too much to ask

It's a fantasy romance series of books. All the rage in booktok

Hi. Yes I keep wanting to and then realising I don't have much to shit post about.

Is the hype around the ACOTAR series as good as it seems?

Also every time I login to twitter, I leave 2 mins later. That is a horrible , triggering & depressing hellsite

Friends, I'm happy to report that we completed 6 months together. It has been refreshing dating someone who speaks my language & lives 25 mins away

Not me sounding like a doctor with "I'm cautiously optimistic" about potentially, maybe meeting someone.

Absolutely hate Instagram and the reels scrolling addiction I get caught up with. Being neurodivergent & on an addictive platform is the worst.

Oh best of luck for that.

Thanks. How are you doing?

Long time indeed fren. I have had better days. It's been a struggle, but tryna survive

Indeed :)

Exes that come back to you after they break-up with their partners, wtf? I'm not an afterthought and I certainly don't deserve to be the number you find scrolling through your contacts after your break-up.

I did the "thank you but fuck you" speech like from Ted lasso with an old ex today. It felt cathartic.

It's fascinating how trauma response manifests in new ways when you least expect it.

Out of focus book in the foreground and row of modern townhouses against a hilly background with lovely blue sky.

Hand holding an out of focus book and a fluffy black cat sitting on the ground under a wooden bench

2 months in New Zealand and I have started enjoying reading again. Working in Indian time in NZ has freed up my days to read, bask in the sun and actually frolic in a freaking meadow of wildflowers.

You promote your work even harder.

Last 20 hours feels like a nightmare I can't wake up from.

Your girl got a 10% hike. I was hoping for 15% but this is good too.

The menu for my second supper club event.

Tips for newskies:

1. Block or mute. Don't spread the toxic goop.

2. Adjust moderation settings via browser to see butts.

3. Life here is simpler if you don't seek out the deep blusky lore.

4. We want to see your pet and hear about your project.

5. Likes are actually little forehead kisses.