Footware is often seen as fashion accessory, in #BDSM it can be much more. Caring for it can be an act of submission, devotion, and service.
This Fetish Friday explores the ritual of #bookblacking.
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This Wordsmith Wednesday’s #poem asks…When did the world stop reading? When did we start letting mistakes breathe and breed?

Have you stopped reading? Prove me wrong…
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Listen Now To The Podcast & Be Inspired - Chatting With The Lightkeeper Explore the captivating world of BDSM, D/S, and kink through discussions and insights heard in the Chatting With The Lightkeeper podcast.

What is one of the most searched #BDSM terms right now?
It surprised me…

#CNC is trending in searches so I put together a #podcast episode for you on it, so you can decide if it is for you, with practical, lived advice on exploring it.
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Are they real or seeking a fantasy?

It can be hard to tell in #BDSM but this week’s Monday Minute breaks it down.

Discover the red and green flags 👇
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Did you have #crossdressing, #sissification, and #bimbofication on your news feed bingo card?

What do they really mean and what’s their history?

Fetish Friday has the history, the reality, and zero political noise.
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"Where are you from?" A question we have all been asked.

But do you ever talk about the ghosts that live there? This Wordsmith Wednesday's poem takes you somewhere haunted.

The town I call home. #poem #poetry
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You never get a second chance to make a first impression, yet in BDSM many assume it is just location and role.

What happens people forget there is a person behind the screen? Find out in this Monday Minute👇 #bdsom #d/s
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Discover The Number One Fantasy... - Chatting With The Lightkeeper This Fetish Friday explores Americans number one fantasy. Find out what makes threesomes and more-somes so popular.

Do you know the number one fantasy?

About 91% of people dream about it, yet only 24% have acted on it.

What drives this fantasy?

Find out in this week’s Fetish Friday.

Would you take the plunge?👇 #bdsm #d/s #kink
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Listen Now To The Podcast & Be Inspired - Chatting With The Lightkeeper Explore the captivating world of BDSM, D/S, and kink through discussions and insights heard in the Chatting With The Lightkeeper podcast.

When it comes to #BDSM & #consent, the lifestyle does some amazing things, in fact, you could say some are consent Jedi but just like the movies, there is a dark side.

Discover what the research shows, the good bad and fugly in the latest pod👇
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It is easy to blame new people for #BDSM #consent #violations. They don’t know the “rules,” or rush rather than vet properly.
But the data shows something else; content note: Heavy topic (SA). Find out what it says in this important Monday Minute.
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Statistics About Fetishes In BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper This Fetish Friday explores the data behind fetishes in BDSM. This date just might surprise you. Do not miss this sourced and data driven look at fetishes.

Look around you for a second…

Now pick out three people…

Statistically, one of them has a fetish. Any guesses who?

Most people never talk about it but Fetish Friday has the data, tap to see 👇 #bdsm #d/s #fetish #fetishes
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What is a common #submissive regret? I wish I had used my safeword.

Why? Because #submissives do not want to disappoint a #dominant.

Find out how safewording is NOT a failure, in this week’s Monday Minute👇 #bdsm #D/S
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Understanding Partner Sharing In BDSM, D/S, And Kink - Chatting With The Lightkeeper This Fetish Friday explores the sharing of partners in BDSM, D/S, and kink is more than just sensual or kinky fun with others. Find out what drives it and how it is more than swinging.

Were you taught sharing is caring?

That phrase has a place in D/S and Fetish Friday is doing more than sharing, it’s explaining it all!

So share the news & tap to read! #BDSM #d/s #fetishFriday
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Listen Now To The Podcast & Be Inspired - Chatting With The Lightkeeper Explore the captivating world of BDSM, D/S, and kink through discussions and insights heard in the Chatting With The Lightkeeper podcast.

Oh, you’re curious about or into BDSM?
• You have a mental disorder
• You must be unhappy
• You had a traumatic childhood

What does the research say about #BDSM, #D/S, #kink, and mental health? Find out in the new #podcast episode!

Tap to listen👇
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Do dominants feel insecurities? Shame? Guilt?

Explore the hidden emotions of dominance
In this week’s Monday Minute👇
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Gas Mask Fetish: History, Psychology, and BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper This Fetish Friday, explore the history and cultural significance of the gas mask fetish, from battlefield tool to symbol of survival and intrigue.

Do you know which tool of war has become a #BDSM tool?

What happens when war meet #kink? Find out in this week’s Fetish Friday👇 #d/s
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One In Three Have Their Consent Violated - Chatting With The Lightkeeper Think conversations and articles about consent in BDSM, D/S, and kink are boring? Well the numbers say this is not and needs to be addressed.

One in three

What’s that have to do with kink?

Per the National Coalition For Sexual Freedom that’s the rate of consent violations in kink.

Find out more in The Monday Minute 👇 #bdsm #kink #d/s
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Humiliation In BDSM And D/S Explained - Chatting With The Lightkeeper On of the assumptions about BDSM or D/S is that you must love humiliation. This Fetish Friday sets the record straight about it in kink.

Being humiliated can be horrible but in #BDSM some find it can be stimulating. While it is not for everyone, learn what makes humiliation a yum and fun for some.

This week’s Fetish Friday explores #humiliation.
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Listen Now To The Podcast & Be Inspired - Chatting With The Lightkeeper Explore the captivating world of BDSM, D/S, and kink through discussions and insights heard in the Chatting With The Lightkeeper podcast.

Can a submissive be collared without a dominant & why would they want this?

Discover the answers in the latest episode of my podcast. Tap the link or search for Chatting With The Lightkeeper wherever you listen to podcasts. #bdsm #d/s #dspodcast
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Understanding A Dominant's Gentle Gestures In BDSM And D/S- Chatting With The Lightkeeper The mass media loves to make dominants in BDSM and D/S look like they are loud and rough but this Monday Minute exposes the truth. Gentle gestures have a place in BDSM.

- Loud

- Aggressive

- Borderline obnoxious

These are typical dominant stereotypes. Break free from them and discover a powerful truth the media typically hides! Find out in this Monday Minute. #bdsm #d/s
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Understanding Hypnosis In BDSM, D/S, And Kink - Chatting With The Lightkeeper This Fetish Friday will not make you sleep as it explains hypnosis in BDSM and D/S. Discover its kinky uses, why its loved, and its dangers.

Hypnosis can be more than therapeutic; for some, it is a kink.

This Fetish Friday explores hypnosis, and when I count down from three, you find yourself wanting to learn more. 3…2…1 Tap below to learn about hypnosis 👇
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When Dominants Feel Guilt Or Shame In D/S And BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper This Monday Minute looks at the emotions of guilt and shame. They are not ones many would attach to Dominants but it is more common than you think. Learn about these emotions in dominance in D/S and B...

Ever walked away from a scene feeling unsettled? What if the dominant is the one lying awake afterward? Yes, even a dominant can question themselves, but what helps when that hits? #bdsm #d/s
Find out in this Monday Minute 👇
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Exploring Electrosex Or E-Stim In BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper This Fetish Friday plugs into electrosex or better known as e-stim in BDSM and kink. Discover its history, why some love it and why it just might amp up your D/S play!

You don’t need Harry Potter for these wands! Ready to charge your play? From medical roots to modern kink…This Fetish Friday is ELECTRIC! #BDSM #D/s #E-stim
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Listen Now To The Podcast & Be Inspired - Chatting With The Lightkeeper Explore the captivating world of BDSM, D/S, and kink through discussions and insights heard in the Chatting With The Lightkeeper podcast.

Just how far back in history does #BDSM, #D/S, and #kink go?

The good news is you do not need a Tardis to learn the about BDSM before the internet.

Just tap the link and listen to the latest episode of the Chatting With The Lightkeeper #podcast!
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Embrace Your Worth And Desires In BDSM And D/S - Chatting With The Lightkeeper Sometimes in BDSM, D/S, and kink it can be easy to get down on yourself or consider settling, especially if you are lonely. This Monday Minute has important reminders!

Finding the right relationship is hard, add in #BDSM and this is amplified.

This Monday Minute brings a reminder to not settle for less than you deserve.

👇Tap to read👇
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Love Without Limits: Brazil Flirts With Polyamory

This is an interesting read 👇
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Understanding Shibari And Kinbaku In BDSM And D/S - Chatting With The Lightkeeper Search for images of BDSM and quickly images of intrigue Shibari or Kimbaku rope work pop up. This Fetish Friday helps you understand the art of rope in D/S and kink.

#BDSM and #rope, social media is filled with its beauty. But where did it come from? Curious what draws people to it? This Fetish Friday explains it. So don’t get tied up and miss it, discover what makes it all so captivating 👇
#shibari #kinbaku
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Dominant Green Flags In D/S And BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper This Monday Minute looks at the flip side of common subject in D/S and BDSM. Often red flags are discussed, however learn green flags dominants display!

When it comes to discussions about dominants, it tends to be red flags and more red flags but this Monday Minute flips the script! #D/s #BDSM #dominant #submissive

👇Discover 10 dominant green flags👇
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Medical Play In BDSM, D/S, And Kink Explained - Chatting With The Lightkeeper In BDSM, D/S, or kink the phrase "The doctor will see you now" might be foreplay! This Fetish Friday helps you understand medical play.

The doctor will see you now. A phrase we have all heard but in #BDSM that can be foreplay.

Discover and understand medical play this #Fetish Friday👇
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A Winter’s Walk - Chatting With The Lightkeeper This Wordsmith Wednesday's poem, invites you on a winter's walk with us where snow blankets and sounds are heard, felt, and yet never seen.

Saylour and I would like to invite you on a winter’s walk. It is the sort of moment that lingers because nothing dramatic happens, yet everything matters. Join us in this Wordsmith Wednesday’s poem. #poem #poetry
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