Able-bodied men live in a different world... He asked for water and my husband just let him in and gave a tour. We were supposed to have all week to move out but now I'm freaking out and we have to do it all today. I don't blame the guy but he was shown an empty house with heat & running water.
My husband actually invited a homeless man into our half-moved-out home and answered all his questions about us moving out just because he was wearing a construction coat 😭 My teen said they had seen that exact coat laying on the ground for several days earlier....
Love how maintenance came over months ago & totally dismissed & ignored me, but the same guy comes over for something else when my able-bodied husband is home & he totally listens, interacts, & discusses the same issue with him 😐
Me outside at night (long brown hair). Black leather jacket with hands in pockets, red sparkly horns, red gems on forehead and under eyes. Fences and leaves in background.
Me outside at night (long brown hair) next to a tree. Black leather jacket, red sparkly dress, red sparkly horns, looking down at a pumpkin. House, shed, and leaves in background.
Happy Halloween! 🎃
Okay, learned not to buy heels on Poshmark anymore 😐 ofc they're all stretched out lol. Idk why I didn't think of it haha.
Awesome! I'm probably going to be in the area for my birthday next week, so I'll try to check it out!
I've wanted to go there for awhile!
And now I find out I guess I don't post on here enough to be allowed to interact with some people I considered friends 🥲 the Internet is ruining my self-esteem lol. I gotta move all apps to my laptop & forget.
Guys I hate Discord, why did I try joining another one lmao. Idk of I'm doing something wrong but I'm always ignored over other people there, I sincerely don't get it. Even pics of my animals in the pet channel get completely passed over. It's like a clique no matter where I go 💀
Anyway, I'm finally figuring out how to style clothes & it's nice l
Like that person I used to respect blaming the teacher who didn't cast them in a play one year for their spiral in life after their mom died, instead of you know, their living parent for not putting them in therapy? Posting it on the teacher's actual memorial post??? Unhinged at their age smh.
Every time I log into FB by mistake (I had to reactivate because someone posted my mom's vacant house with directions & I had to report it), I regret. It's always the most unhinged, unhealthy post at the top of my feed written by a real life acquaintance. Or an unhinged comment by a different one.
6/ I heard they all left. Surprising since they had all been there so long. But I really think there needs to be higher education requirements, more rotation so a group doesn't get established in power like that, and/or more on-going deeper education for paraprofessionals, especially in SPED.
5/ Another para once started talking, in detail, about how she physically abused her daughter once. Her daughter threatened to call the cops. The cops came & backed up this para. She told it like her daughter was awful & she (the para) did the right thing. I felt sick.
4/ The newest para had a daughter with Down's. Another para started talking about how parents with Down's kids definitely drank during pregnancy right in front of her. I was so shocked.
3/ One made gestures moving to hit kids. They mocked kids and controlled. The psychologist was scoffed at when she'd come help with really difficult cases. I tried to be an example of positive reinforcement and connection. They publicly ridiculed me. I quit.
2/ And that was a problem when there was a group leaning on "experience" over education. They did behavior modification on kids that they designed. They didn't even know what that was & weren't doing it correctly. But ignored me because I was new. Ridiculed me & any school psych that asvised them.
I often think about my coworkers from when I worked in a SPED class. Teacher's 1st year teaching with 5 paras who had been there 10 years. There was hierarchy and not enough educated people working with the kids (only highschool education required). The teacher & I were the only college educated ppl
My supervisor is begging me not to quit :') makes me feel bad. Keep remembering the look on his face when he gave me 2 awards at the big meeting months ago. At least I know I can go back if I need to. I feel weird leaving a job I'm so good at with people I like at it. I'm just soooo burnt out... :(
Thank you! It's so hard because they're not just a little friend, but you're responsible for their well-being :( I feel like I could've done more somehow.
Put in my resignation for Oct. I know it's right. I just use that money for consumerism. Buying what I don't really need. It's addicting so I want to stop lol. Also, I love my job but it's dangerous sometimes. And also 5 years of a less-than part time where I have to give up every other weekend. Hm.
My bearded dragon died yesterday... He was 8. An old man, but many live longer these days so I expected more time. My habits of giving him greens is still here. So I'm cooking lunch and automatically move to give him greens from it, then remember. Or a bell pepper as a treat. :(
Some stupid urban explorer kid vandalized my vacant house recently. My neighbor saw them & chased them away but didn't take any photos. They came back, ripped the No Trespassing sign and broke a window. Hope they post a video somewhere so I can find and prosecute them.
I had such bad insomnia last night, I'm afraid to go to bed now.
My last paycheck was $170 lol. Why do I even bother working in the summer? XD It's almost $18/hr but my shifts are so short that when I take time off, I basically get nothing. It's better in the winter. Just gets in the way in summer. It's like a hobby instead of a job....
Didn't go lol & don't regret it.
My job requires me to work every other weekend. Why do they think I'd be available to pick up any shifts on my weekends off in the summer, especially when I have kids? Especially on shorter notice? I'm going camping. Sorry I have a life & am already giving up half my summer for this part time job.
I can't decide whether to go to my highschool reunion tomorrow or not. It's just at some bar in my hometown.
You can even post literal facts with evidence and they'll try to fight you lol. You can post other people's opinions you don't agree with, and they'll fight you directly LOL
That's the best!