WHY IS MY PHONE VIBRATING EVERY TIME I INTERACT WITH A POST I DONT HAVE ANY OF THAT SHIT TURNED ON.

Parentifying her during these conflicts between her and her dad. She is more capable of insight and disengement than he is so I tend to focus on getting her to break the cycle of conflict instead of getting him to. She called me on that and told me she needs me to stick up for her. She's right!

The day ended with a bang, just like it started. Miss 13 held husband accountable for using a word based on the r-slur, he did his DARVO thing, and he did not like that she didn't play along and kept the focus on his actions.

She also held me accountable after and helped me realize I'm guilty of

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I support the right of everyone to block me for any reason whatsoever, including that their dog farted while they were reading my post.

That said, occasionally I do go through three stages of being blocked:

1) Huh?
2) Seriously?
3) Yeah, that’s probably for the best. We were not gonna be friends.

Exactly this. So many memories of watching the show with my family. Like, I still remember episodes! Cosby was the dad everybody wished they had!

Basement clean out today: went through the last box of files (mostly trash), and a box of books (mostly self-help bullshit but Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy was in there!) Dumped a stack of plastic totes lids that had no tote in the trailer.

Low energy day. My body is being so mean this week.

It is lesbian visibility week, the one week of the year where we do not have to take turns keeping watch against lesbian attacks

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A share of merch sales will go to the Sandy Hook families, which will be the first time they get any money since they filed this lawsuit eight years ago.

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Well, I had $900 saved for the car and it’s looking at $2100 so uhhh…
If anyone is able to help out😬😭

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Pardon me while I go scream.

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It’s finally happened. After 18 months. Finally, a media merger you can root for.

Creating a viable lifeline for abused women to safely leave their partners is definitely on my "if I win the lotto" list.

"Just leave him" is "Pull yourself up by your bootstraps" rebranded for use against abused women.

And instead of letting her be upset by another unexpected routine change, he got chippy with her, shamed her for wanting "mom time" and then stormed out of the house and now he's texting that "we need to talk about some things" so there goes my nervous system for the day.

Husband took last Thurs afternoon and Fri off at the last minute, which I've told him is hard for Miss 13 to handle because it's an unexpected routine change. Then this morning she woke up and realized he was still here at 9:30 and started crying because she was expecting him to be back at work.

Got another $100, thank you so much! Cat’s apartment fund is at $595 of $3k now. Please keep sharing and give if you can!

Wiseman: Hey Siri, what’s my location?

Siri: *screaming* I DON’T KNOW, WHAT IS HAPPENING??

Who new the mark of the beast would be youtuber merch.

Can we please get some more movement on this? Adjusted to $3k goal, and been stuck at $495 for almost a week. Help a trans family get into an apartment!

I keep waiting for the story to drop that he's a serial killer.

Now working on next month - spirals for all!

Emergency kitten- rasslin

Dozens of fabric hexagons laid out together in cheerful pastels and primary colors with a variety of patterns on them.

That's so kind! I need about 250 more 2 inch hexies - no clue what yardage. These are some of the colors and prints I'm working with - a retro feel. The shirts I'm cutting up are mainly just solid colors - dark blue, pale green, and lavender. Yellow, pink, and red are probably needed most.

ADHD and autistic people don't cut ourselves enough slack for how maxed out we are. If you're neurodivergent and staring down a mess that's starting to feel a bit like a hoard, see it as a symptom, because that's what it is.

Too much in your brain = too much in your home.

me to sort through. I have it now because I'm not working. I've wanted to do this for years and couldn't- my brain was simply used up every day. No mental energy for sorting boxes of paperwork or shelves of sentimental stuff or managing "maybe we'll use this if we keep it a little longer" thoughts.

Also, as someone who's AuDHD a lot of that "lighter" feeling is from letting go of shame. So many things I hung on to because I couldn't admit to myself I never should have bought them. I thought they'd be useful or loved items and they never were. Other things took too much executive function for

Cleaning is so hard on chronically ill bodies. I wish you were my neighbor so I really could help.

Dismantled the shirts and think I can get about another 200 hexies out of them. That gets me 2/3 of the way to the total amount I need. I have a king sized white sheet that can get me over the finish line and possibly be the backing fabric too. I can dye it if I don't want it white.

Sure! But for the cost of my plane ticket you could probably rent a dumpster and just chuck everything in there. Easy peasy.

One thing that cleaning out the basement has done is nudged me into cleaning out other areas of the house as well. Just tackled the hall closet and ended up with a full bag of trash and several things for the donation pile.

Every thing that leaves this house makes me feel lighter.