TSICH ATLY lifeafterpsychiatry Sep 24, 2021 Follow If you accidentally hurt someone or cross their boundaries and they make you aware of this, literally all you have to do is apologize and stop. You don't have to beat yourself up internally for months. You don't have to hate yourself for fucking up. You don't have to feel like a horrible person. No one benefits from any of that - and at worst, such an extreme reaction will make the person in question less likely to speak up around you in the future, cause even if your negative reaction is directed at yourself and not at them, it's still unpleasant for everyone involved.

I’m also just going to add that this is a classic form of making everything about yourself & can, in some cases, basically traumatize people in your life into silence bc asking you gently to stop bringing up certain topics, etc. results in a complete and total breakdown centered on your self image

cohost had an _existence_, a Social Realness, that transcended its death. Every time I go to a local gamedev or art event I run into people reminiscing about it. People will never talk about this site in that way because on some subconscious level we all understand that this is a place of suffering

Please. Do not vibe code services that collect location data. For the love of all that is unholy

behold. low poly blender rat.

she's all ears

what if it all works out? ✨
#furryart

(Teasing aside, I adore how much she pores into the small details)

Gods help me she is showing me different ribbon swatches and trying to coordinate which colors match the wrapping

My gf is wrapping a gift for her friend ("just friend, totally friends") and she's worrying over her technique, so I offered two points of advice:

• Make the edges flush with the box seams where possible
• LOOK AT YOURSELF YOU GODDAMN LESBIAN! LOOK AT WHAT'S BECOME OF YOU! AGONIZING OVER 𝙒𝙍𝘼𝙋𝙋𝙄𝙉𝙂!!

I've got two Bronx women fighting in a discord server over which ones of these are correct

Meme edit of a Calvin & Hobbes comic Panel 1 Calvin's dad, walking in on Calvin: "Visiting the tri-state area? I’ll show you something interesting." Panel 2 Calvin's dad, pointing at a map: "The two types of land are New York and New Jersey. All others fall into these two kinds. Jersey City has a lot of New York energy. Staten Island is New Jersey." Calvin: "Yeah..." Panel 3 Calvin's dad: "Philidelphia? New York. Pittsburgh? New Jersey. New Haven? New York. Upstate New York? Jersey. Despite being all the way deep south in New Jersey, Atlantic City is actually New York." Panel 4 Calvin is lying in bed late at night, clearly upset and unable to sleep

And don't get me started on Hoboken...

Cat Day# A236: Cat. Color pencils on dot grid paper (smooth/white). #cat #dailydoodle

i need tgirls to stop being at each others throats. we need to fucking stick together

Soul is weary but the flesh is willed

Tethered (Trial Run), by Ciderbite track by Ciderbite

Pro tip: if you call everything a demo, you’ll never have to finish a track again! :D

But seriously, this is a demo. One day I’ll finish tracks again… one day.

ciderbite.bandcamp.com/track/tether...

Lowkey ally

Lol, when you do it you do it full-throated though. This dude somehow managed to voice it where you could tell he really really wanted to say a slur ;xD

To the dude at Hoboken who meekly jeered "Gayyyy" at us when we walked past:

... I was holding hands with both my girlfriends, so you may in fact be onto something 🤔

If I say goodnight and an hour later you see me online, it’s not that I lied, it’s just that I failed. Illustrated Pionus sleeping and chubby Budgie going "huehuehue" while looking at his phone.

((If you really wanna MEAN 'Goodnight' when you say 'Goodnight', I'd recommend putting your phone in another room and getting yourself a traditional alarm clock.)) ;) 🪶

Damn, am sorry I missed Wondies tonight

Two stacks of Jin brand ramen noodles. The mild one depicts a bowl-cut guy in a yellow sweater, and the spicy one shows the same guy looking more sharply dressed with stylish hair and in a dark suit

I love this concept of dressing your spokeperson (mascot) differently to depict how spicy your ramen is. Just look at his comfy sweater!

This is a stupid anology of course; chocolate doesn't have an agenda to force itself down anyone's throat 😒

"I get it, chocolate is delicious. People would kill to have as much chocolate as I do now. But can we acknowledge for a moment that I don't want chocolate and in fact would very much like some help 𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘤𝘰𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘳?!" ― Me, whilst drowning

"Whoa, slow down there Augustus Gloop"

Sitting here working in bed while I hear my gf teaching classes before me, taking a break to look over travel plans that my other gf is assisting with, knowing I get to go home and spend time with my wife at the end of my night... I truly am spoiled aren't I?

God I love my partners so much

Ohhhh

Cat sitting on a fence's spherical post

Cat on sphere caught on cam

"a pair of" = 2
"a couple of" ≅ 2
"a few" > 2
"several" > 2
"a few" ≢ "several"

Flippin thru a big stack of old furry comics i bought and this got my ass good

First they came for the transgender community, and I was like "Hey, those people are part of MY community too, you can't fucking do that to them!"