10. Warm but stern scolding. Explicit trust and affection is important for my comfort in a scene so I can have a hard time with rougher stuff. Like it can be harsh and disciplinary but if it’s cold like you’re a prison warden or something that turns me off.

9. Bare bottom

8. Not very. I’m a bit more comfortable knowing that I am a spanko. But how to healthy express these desires irl I have no clue.

7. I need to experiment more. I’ve received the paddle the most which honestly sucks lol. I found the belt actually much more endurable…

6. Probably being spanked by a mother-figure or a close female friend. Idk what that’s about…

Maybe one reason that spanking always vibed with me is that it’s a very ungendered and in some manner an “unsexual” way to express/experience sexuality. As a queer person who through life couldn’t tell up from down when it comes to this stuff, spanking is the thing that stayed constant. 🤔

5. Probably otk or over the arm of a couch. But there’s lots I haven’t tried. Legs-up is really cute to watch but painful to be in 😅

This room looks peaceful…. yet painful.

4. Haven’t self-spanked in a while cuz I’m living with people. But other wise probably a couple times a month maybe more.

3. Uh, anyone’s I guess? I like butts!

2. Primarily a bottom but I like to play so I don’t mind switching on occasion.

1. Just with my partner. Haven’t been to any parties or munches yet.

Can you add me as well?

Ooo, I want to do it too!