This is also why you can only set boundaries towards people who interact with you in some way. Asking a random stranger just minding their own business to stop doing something you don't like isn't a boundary. Chosing that you won't interact with them because of something they did, is
"If you do xyz I can't have you in my life" is a boundary. There is no demand, they can continue to do xyz, but it has to be without you. It's up to them to pick whichever is more important to them. And you have to accept (albeit very upsetting) if that isn't you
I think one of the things a lot of people get wrong about setting boundaries is, that you can only ever set boundaries for YOURSELF.
"You have to stop doing xyz" is not a boundary. It's a demand (Whether that demand is fair or not is a whole other topic).
Heroes of Might and Magic my beloved!!!!! They are such good games
Checks out
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This was pretty fun! Had to make some really hard choices on what to include too :'D
Update, after another hour I ended at 1.6k words that day
Damn those focus apps be working. Managed to write about 800 words in an hour
It's like saying "You don't need food, there's water"
Kinda need both, kthx
Website is coming along nicely
Found new color theme for Visual Studio Code and it's making my brain go brrrrr with how pretty it is
Hand slipped in designing myself some new business cards :'D
This one's a Huion Kamvas 24 Plus with 2560 x 1440 resolution :D
Writing truly is a process™
Some days it's a struggle to put down even 30 words. Other days, like today, I manage to pump out 900 words in an hour lmao
Bugs are pretty cool btw 👍
Digital illustration in semi-realistic style of a white dear with red eyes shown from the shoulders up. It's surrounded by pine trees. A blood-red moon is situated perfectly between the deers antlers
A vengeful moon spirit or just a benevolent forest god?
🌙🦌
Had a lot of fun with some new tree brushes for this one!
Trying to redefine myself and the things I draw so expect a lot of different things these coming months ✌️
It's been quite some time since I've genuinely enjoyed doing art. I am happy to change that
This is a great tutorial if anyone else wants to branch out and try this method of rendering:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=E0L4...
Learning to render on one layer has been such a game changer for speed. Lineart's always been the thing that's taken me the longest. Being able to not worry beyond clean sketch makes the whole process so much more enjoyable
Standee and charm design I've been working on ♥
I've come to find the autistic rizz is so real when you actually become an adult. Also towards many allistic people (With exception ofc)
Being "quirky and different" when you're a kid makes you a target for bullying. When you're an adult it makes you stand out as an interesting person asdfghjk
10-min King cheetah study 🐈
I love my new tablet. It's so nice to work on a big area lol
Got it from a friend
I kinda find it funny how IRL I have a pretty easy time making friends now that I'm an adult
Online, though, my general social skill set evens out to "Weirdly quiet and awkward"
Just three dragon adopts left still looking for a home!
ko-fi.com/eyenoom/shop
30 USD each
Shares are very appreciated! ✨
Commission for Veluren!~
Absolutely! I'm reading a lot of stuff from the 70's and 80's right now
Heck, even a lot of the goofy silver age stuff is a very enjoyable read
Me: I will never get into DC comics or Marvel
Me: Okay maybe I will get into comics for characters that don't have that many issues / stories
So anyway I got into Batman
