Exactly. In the quotes talmbout "I didn't even say you shouldn't enjoy yourself!" When ppl are (justifiably) bristling at the implication that they shouldn't go out 🙃

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Maybe, but I would ask "how can we make this so?" Because this idea is the cause of many (mostly women) wasting their lives in unfulfilling romantic relationships. It's a toxic idea, and women deserve freedom from it.

ENOUGH!

We sure as hell do!

Got you. Yeah I see some of that in online conversations. I think there's a lot of the opposite happening in reality though, luckily.

That's true. I think what I have trouble reconciling is how we make keeping a job the MOST IMPORTANT thing we do when trying to create a system that doesn't require that. I feel you though.

This was fantastic.

Hmmm. Although I understand the sentiment, I think we have to create systems to sustain us that don't depend on this stuff.

I giggled for some reason but... accurate. 😭

Where though? For all this "Black ppl are staying home" talk, in REAL LIFE I see Black ppl organizing, supporting immigrants, Palestine and everything in between. Is this about something in particular that happened?

This so much.

Sholl do. There's not a single Black girl in that whole video, I can't believe I actually listened to this 😭

Any #blacksky ladies wanna play Stardew Valley co-op? 👀

Omg how is it?

Meeeeeee *raises hand*

Wanna do this soooooooo bad

I DEFLEE should. Halp. 😭

THIS PART. Yall really thought yall had it 🙄

This is ACTUAL FACTUAL. (I feel like there's even a study on this somewhere.) But I think it's specific to the US.

BLACK DIASPORA can yall identifying Black ppl by voice? I'm sure slang helps but even without that? Or is that a US thing?

Well done! (Seriously, I've hopped out of moving vehicles for less.)

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He is indeed. Is it odd? Not sure... idk if it made sense to expect more of a yt man but yeah. Very incel-aligned.

This is too loud for some people, I fear 😔

A Haitian woman just died in ICE custody. And it still won’t get as much credit as any other immigration story cause black and woman. Telling us to mind our black business when we’re the one amplifying that news is insane.

So good!

Bruh women who do this are so RIDICULOUS and male centered. They even do it to children (ask me how I know) 🙄

Right. Not everyone has it like that and we shouldn't be stigmatizing asking people to contribute to a group event. Whose standards are those anyway? Nvm... we know.

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