Preach

“I can’t wait for the Harry Potter series!” elicits the same response from me as red MAGA hats.

Being a parent doesn't exclude you from asexuality. And why "real asexual" discourse is really a form of queerphobia

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If you see this, post a picture of you in glasses 🤓

Europe for almost two weeks and I only gained like 1 pound

GOD IS GOOD

We all know this is fascism.

The more we see social and political pushback against queer folks, the more queer folks (mainly the cis white ones who are most approximate to privilege and power) are going to demand assimilation "for our own good."

Fuck those people.

I read MISERY at 10. Hooked me on King and horror though.

Looking great

So proud to be a part of this project, and to have worked with so many excellent writers. I hope you love it. Thanks, @sandyernestallen.bsky.social for having me.

Sophie Oluwole, the trailblazing Nigerian woman who redefined philosophy Oluwole faced a double challenge: a woman in philosophy and an African, confronting both sexism and Eurocentric bias.

'She did not simply ask for African thinkers to be added to reading lists. She questioned the criteria used to define philosophy. In the process, she challenged a long-standing intellectual hierarchy.'

Republicans didn’t care when millions of people died during Covid. You can’t expect them to start caring about dead Americans now.

Stephen Graham Jones’ New Horror Novel 'Off the Reservation' ‘Stole’ His Sleep — See the Cover (Exclusive) PEOPLE can exclusively reveal the cover of Stephen Graham Jones' next horror novel, 'Off the Reservation.' The book, due out this fall from Saga Press, brings back a character from the author's 2020 b...

On the bookshelves October 13th. Hope y’all like it:

Don’t realize? Mama, this is the POINT.

I’d like to hear less from straight white people on whether something is political or not.

Next digital workshop coming up March 1 --

Register: www.crowdcast.io/c/resisting

No worries friend. I’m not here as much these days. All good!

The Potential of (A)Speculative Fiction... with Amelia Burton In this One on One, Amelia Burton and I talk speculative fiction and the ways it can illuminate aspec experience

Fiction can provide a space for aspec people to imagine themselves into the world. Amelia Burton and I got into this in this One on One.

You still get to be gay even if you don't use "sportsball"

It wasn't funny last year either, Kyle.

The annual ritual of gay men posting, "Who's watching the (insert artist here) show today? I hear there's some kind of sports game happening?"

Indigenous-Led Collectives Are Keeping Minnesotan Communities Safe From ICE Members of the American Indian Movement and the Many Shields Warrior Society are patrolling the streets of Minneapolis.

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Having you a part of any event, virtual or in-person, was always an absolute pleasure.

Want some advice? Be critical when reading advice columns. The subtle ways allonormativity shows up in sex and relationship advice

Sex and relationship advice can send messages that limit what aspec people can aspire to and ask for in relationships.

"I'm aromantic but allosexual. Can I want a sexually exclusive relationship?" We shouldn't shut down our possibilities before we can properly explore them.

"I think this is one of the most fundamental gifts aspec people can give themselves when it comes to relationships: releasing social norms as truth and giving yourself possibilities."

First-of-its-kind aspec representation looks like Lola A little inside look at LOVE LOOKS LIKE LOLA, the first aroace picture book.

Here's LOVE LOOKS LIKE LOLA, the first aroace picture book!

THE ACE AND ARO RELATIONSHIP GUIDE is a selection for the American Library Association's 2026 Rainbow List. Yay!

Identity labels, gatekeeping, and making our own meaning I take a deep dive into the functions of identity labels and how we choose and use them.

"Our process of meaning-making about our own experience is how we get to know ourselves... What works for an individual is what works. What matters is that the process produces self-understanding."

We go deep on identity labels in this one.

I’m happy to hear that human ghouls are having a bad time.

ICE killing #AlexPretti should remind you of police killing #PhilandoCastille. Both men had concealed weapon permits, did not draw their guns, & were killed in Minn. These homicides are the price of unaccountable policing. These deaths are variations on the same fatal theme.