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Posts by fresafresca3000

I'm a lifelong fat girl and enjoyed reading Shrill. I have often felt supported by LIndy's writing as a fat person. That being said, the depth of her internalized fat hatred is shocking to me. It's on a level that I don't relate to.

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i firmly believe that kennedy wants preventable diseases to rip through american communities since, in his warped mind, those who survive without vaccines will have proven themselves “healthy.”

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Doesn’t matter how far removed you get, the feelings will forever linger. Life gets in the way, you’ll forget all about it occasionally, but the most inexplicable things can and will still fill you with unimaginable grief.

There’s just no right or wrong way, there’s no too much or too little.

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Being an American citizen while Trump is President, someone I did not vote for, is the worst relationship I have ever been in.

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A 'Dinosaur Smarties' Easter egg.

A 'Dinosaur Smarties' Easter egg.

Erm, they're called palaeontologists, actually.

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The dude in the white house is like a male Karen. He throws an absolute public fit to get his way. It's a nightmare

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I'm apparently one of the 3,000 people to buy Adult Braces this past week. Wow! So rare! Anyway, I did like the book. I am making my boyfriend read it so we can have a book club of two hahaha Yes, i loaned him my copy because I finished it

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In Korea, when the president declared martial law after midnight and erected barricades in Seoul, congressional reps from all parties ran into the streets, yanked ak47s from the army at the barricades, broke down the locked door to Congress, repealed the martial law order, and arrested the president

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Whenever someone says "there are no civilians in [country]," they are making an argument for genocide.

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Also, this is a little too in the weeds and a whole different column, but if a partner you broke up with says they'll get back together but only in a non-monogamous context, it's not coercion. They're telling you what they want and you can accept it or reject it.

There's no reason for someone who wants monogamy to accept a relationship with someone who doesn't want that, and no reason for someone who wants to be polyamorous to accept monogamy if it's not what they want either. Having antagonistic positions is not either party coercing the other

Also, this is a little too in the weeds and a whole different column, but if a partner you broke up with says they'll get back together but only in a non-monogamous context, it's not coercion. They're telling you what they want and you can accept it or reject it. There's no reason for someone who wants monogamy to accept a relationship with someone who doesn't want that, and no reason for someone who wants to be polyamorous to accept monogamy if it's not what they want either. Having antagonistic positions is not either party coercing the other

Lindy West Discourse is one of those revealing ones where you've got one side using proper nouns and drawing pretty obvious, damning conclusions, and then there's another set of people generalizing to a degree that makes one wonder if they mean to preemptively excuse something they might do someday.

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I hope Lindy West is having a good day.

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I have a complicated history with coercive polyamory, so I’ve been mostly steering clear of the whole Lindy West situation, but I can definitely tell you that I’m getting the vibe that some people are THRILLED to have an excuse to gang up on the fat lady and they aren’t especially subtle about it.

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This was an immediate ear worm and honestly, I’m not mad about it.

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so funny when people get all upset about genres that other people DARE to enjoy. these big think pieces about ROMANTASY or COZY HORROR or DARK ACADEMIA and how dang upset they make the writer of the article. bud who cares what other people like youll be fine. let people read their books oh my god

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Congratulations, you don't know who Lindy West is, so that means what? You have no idea who is one of the most important voices in the fat liberation movement? And that's an accomplishment? ok go off.

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Please forgive me for invoking this discourse yet again but I feel like I need to say aloud that Lindy West is not less attractive than her husband. Very tired of this getting constantly repeated like it's a point of fact.

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There's an Atlantic article (its always fucking the Atlantic) accusing Lindy West of having "rapid-onset bisexuality" and
1) people hate fat women so much
2) people have bi women so much
3) it was only a matter of time before they started using anti-trans lingo against other letters in the acronym

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This is just to say
I was offline and missed
the Lindy West and Chappell Roan discourse
which the internet
has probably already discussed to death
forgive me
have now listened to the Slate podcast
that email was insane
so entitled
and so stupid

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Which let me be clear: she certainly gets to live the life she wants to have! She certainly doesn't need me to buy anything but perhaps her book. Just saying, yikes. That's all

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I believed everything Lindy West said about Aham being awesome, until I read that e-mail they sent. It's mean-spirited, wacko and out of touch with reality. I adore Liindy, but that's enough. I wish her good luck with all that and stuff, but I'm not buying this narrative anymore.

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yeah that was absolutely perfect. What a beautiful display of culture, history, resistance, unity, and hope. I’m so endlessly proud of you, Benito 💗

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It’s not a troubled newspaper, it’s owed by the second richest man on earth who could fund it forever and not notice the cost. This is an intentional self-inflicted wound.

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In the last few years, it got popular to slam Torrid in fat girl spaces online. I used to defend it. Not anymore! All the clothes look the same, are mostly frumpy, and are in a limited number of colors. They sell t-shirts that have holes in them and call it "distressed." Thanks, I hate it.

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This is excellent & draws out something the rest of the media is ignoring: among other things, the Epstein files have made it super, super clear that the entire "anti-woke" cultural hysteria was engineered by powerful men averse to accountability.

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I get that everyone who is in the know knows this already but I am quite happy for a publication to be surfacing it again, especially for readers who may not be aware

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SEN. OSSOFF: “.. why are roving gangs of masked men — who look like they couldn’t pass the Army physical exam — dressed up like pretend Delta Force operators, on our streets, demanding papers, dragging people from their cars, and shooting people to death?”

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Congresswoman Dexter and the Crespo-Gonzalez family en route to Portland, Oregon.

Congresswoman Dexter and the Crespo-Gonzalez family en route to Portland, Oregon.

Congresswoman Dexter, staff, and the Crespo-Gonzalez family after arriving in Portland, Oregon.

Congresswoman Dexter, staff, and the Crespo-Gonzalez family after arriving in Portland, Oregon.

The Crespo-Gonzalez family is home.

Our community refused to stay silent in the face of such an immoral, unethical detention. Now, we must continue speaking up for the countless other families and children imprisoned by Trump.

Stay loud.

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Toddler hospitalized with respiratory failure was returned to ICE detention without prescribed medication, lawsuit says The 18-month-old was sent back to a South Texas facility after days in intensive care with severe respiratory distress, according to a federal lawsuit.

NEW: A baby held in immigration detention became so sick, she had to be rushed to a hospital in severe respiratory distress.

“She was at the brink of dying,” a lawyer told me.

But the girl didn’t go home after her 10-day hospital stay; instead, ICE put her and her mother back in lock up at Dilley.

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So I've been a fat girl for a very long time. I can confidently say that right now, it is the worst I've seen in plus-size fashion in over 30 years. It was getting somewhat promising for a while, at least light-years ahead of the mid-90s. But my god, it is atrocious right now. wtf

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