Posts by โจ๏ธ Sparkly Bedwetter Lobie (they/them)
Changing my messy diapers is not exactly something that bothers me anymore tbh. Got really used to it, it's just 2nd nature now.
But, I guess the worst one may have been from quite a while back when I had to change in a Wendy's.
Just was lacking the supplies to make it easier.
The comfiest! There's nothing better in this world.
"Yes."
I mean, I am 99.9% certain many people have noticed I am wearing diapers.
It's not any of their business, but why would I say anything else?
Good point! Why should I change if it's just going to get messy again anyway!?
Well, I can no longer say that I've not messed while asleep...
CW: Visible Staining! #MessyDiaper #Messy #Diaper #Wetting #WetDiaper
Of course I pooped my pants, I always poop my pants.
So, uhh... where's the bathroom at here? I need to go change.
CW: #MessyDiaper #Wet #Messy #Diaper
Huh? My diaper seems to be a lot heavier now than it was when I went to work...
Oh well, I'ma go play games now!
Let's see, again "riskiest" are probably these; several of them many times over...
1. Shopping areas
2. Street on walk home from work
3. Bus
4. Movie Theater
5. Nature trails
6. University lecture...
I think thats it honestly? Maybe missing something.
Hmm, I don't know if I'd call any of them risky. And also, different answers for accidental and intentional.
I guess "riskiest" accidental:
1. Massive leak at work
2. Massive leak at dentist
3. Hotel lobby
Then, for intentional... where haven't I peed my pants? ๐
Everytime bluesky fails to load, I'm gonna fill my diaper even more.
Don't doom us all bluesky.
Yes, many other places outside the toilet.
Generally into my pants in a variety of locations or areas, if not into my diapers.
Noooo ๐
Hard to get good lighting and angling.
Im picky about it though. Lol
So challenging to video! Maybe someday.
*shrug* idk, that's my take.
Idk why you want my advice anyway; its your life. You shouldn't really care what I think; I can't tell you that it is or isn't "acceptable"
You need to look at your own ethics and morals.
Just, like be respectful you know? Think about how you could be hurting or bothering others...
Wetting your pants on a walk home in the city.
Messing a diaper in a bathroom stall and proceeding to change.
Messing on a walk in a park, and going home to change.
...
Look, I can make you 1000 scenarios that are "more respectful" and thousands more that are violently disrespectful.
Don't go piss all over a bench in McDonald's and leave it for staff to clean up, or someone to sit in.
Dont go shit your pants and cry to random strangers that you made a poopy.
Don't be vulgar, or sexually explicit.
...
These should be obvious. But they're a heck a lot different than...
5. Consider the social expectations in every scenario.
6. Have an escape plan.
7. It's your life, do what you want. Be respectful.
I'm sure theres things I've missed; but there you go a quick general list.
No one cares, seriously. Just dont be a disrespectful dick.
1. Don't leave any shit or piss behind for others to clean.
2. Don't **ever** trap people with your smell. (No elevators, no buses, no taxis, etc.)
3. Proceed to go home and/or clean-up in a private space **immediately**
4. Don't draw attention to yourself, do not involve others.
So, here are some important aspects to be aware of right away.
1. People will likely notice.
2. People will not likely say anything or confront you.
3. Be prepared for the alternatives.
4. Be prepared for the consequences.
So, let's talk general harm reduction.
These rules only apply if you are going to mess in a public space, or visibly wet your pants in a public space.
You should go out of your way to eliminate or reduce all potential harm or not do it at all.
You should go out of your way to fully know your surroundings and expected outcomes.
Why are you asking me?!
Okay, my advice I kinda already detailed out before...
I come at this from a perspective of harm reduction.
I don't feel like detailing out 100s of scenarios each with so much nuance... so fine, here, have some very generalized rules.
Now, I change in public stalls often enough and zero embarassment if anyone notices. People can mind their own business or not, but embarrassing? Nah.
If you mean changed by someone else, then I guess being changed while messy when friends are over; though not embarrassing.
If you include changing myself? Probably a long time back when I changed in a public stall at the local mall and every thing was going very wrong and it was all very obvious.
CW: #Nudity #Watersports #Piss #Bedwetting #Wetting
There's never a reason to *not* pee in your bed.
Alssoooo it's #TMITuesday, so have at it folks! Ask me anything!
ngl.link/lobie65215
CW: #Messy #Diaper
A walk is always better when your diaper is more full than when you left. ๐
It's #TMITuesday so ask me whatever!
ngl.link/lobie65215
CW: #Messy #Diaper #Staining
Just behaving as always and filling my diapers all day ๐ซ I'm sure it wasn't noticeable.
CW: #Nudity #Piss #Bedwetting #Bedwetter #Watersports
Waking up in a soaked bed? Just let it flow on out again in the morning! Relax, and enjoy it.
I recommend everyone just pee in bed anyway, there's no better way.
Allllso, it's #TMITuesday, so go ahead! ngl.link/lobie65215
I'm getting advertisements for potty training propaganda!
You can't trick me to start potty training Big Brother! I object, let it be known that I, Lobie will continue to fill my diapers for eternity.
You should too! Show these corporations you won't be controlled by their potties!
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