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There needs to be a collar they can swallow, retrieve, and swallow again

^ don't play to the mainstream. Share what makes you different so your people can find you

If you're going to fill a slave's ass with pudding, use this one: it's right in the name

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Update from the Resistance -- the RESISTING VANILLA CREEP resistance:

I've tasked slave iii with baking a cake that's strictly for me: it requires a flour she can't eat. This departs from "common weal" decision-making, so the whole time she's making it, her brain can say "good slave! good slave!"

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Why are we eating cabbage soup & drinking Kvass? 🥬🍺

It's because eating disorders respond to leadership, not to power. Since my slave is suddenly into Russian Duolingo, and weekly cooks a dish I choose, I market her hyperfixation back to her with my choices, growing her repertoire of safe foods

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Mastery as Seduction Challenge: by the end of the date, they observe aloud, "I like it when you tell me what to do."

To plan the date, work backwards from their realization: what series of events builds to that honest observation?

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How do you resist "vanilla creep" in your authority exchange dynamic(s)?

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Slaves accumulate around those displaying leadership skills. The key functions of Leadership:

- Setting Vision & Direction
- Motivating & Inspiring
- Developing People
- Managing Change

Acquired for my slavegirl's sticker collection: congratulations on your recent 77th rectal insemination! #ass #goldstar #<3

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Do you have a "Roger" vs "Wilco", a "Yes, Sir" vs "Aye Aye, Sir" signal?

One signals "heard", the other signals "I hear and obey", which also tells M immediately when words came across wrong

M: I forgot to plug in the car
s: wilco (stands up)
M: sit down and finish eating
s: wilco (sits down)

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When slave discomfort emerges as irritation, I'm not provoked and I don't respond with power. Replying "I see that you're in pain" shifts us to the real issue and models the metacognition and compassion she's developing. Your mastery isn't all authority, structure: it can also be master-level skills

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When you add M/s to a pre-existing relationship, consider how to translate your physical rapport, like how you show affection, or how you sit together, into something evocative of your M/s style, and keep both. Call them "low protocol" and "high protocol", if you want to use the hot M/s terminology

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Master phrasing Monday:

"There's no way to get this wrong"

In M/s, those notes you leave for yourself in strange places and won't understand later, escalate #girlpellets

Congratulating my slave on 69 rectal inseminations! #milestones

I know she's around here somewhere

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We're meeting tomorrow for Open Topics, contact me if you need the address. Some examples that often come up, but go differently with every group:

- collars & collaring practices
- marriage after M/s
- how to get started with M/s
- M/s & recovery (ED, trauma)
- poly + M/s intersections

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Would you want (or do you have) a coffee ritual? #master/slave #d/s #bdsm

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I caned my girl at the master/slave tea party, as she poured my tea. She didn't spill any

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MAsT ATX loves a shiny service tray, but as a D-type, I remember the time I was silently handed a drink from offscreen during a professional conference call, and the time I had a drink put down on the bar before me without a word while talking to a contest judge. Thank you for the service flex ♥️♥️♥️

It's out! My second essay for Raven Kaldera, "Reparenting M/s", is now published in his compilation on Master/skave relationships with ADHD: "Distracted Dominance and Service with Squirrels!"

alfredpress.com/adhd-and-pow...

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Non-TPE, non-24/7 M/s is valid M/s. We stay in our lanes with phrases like "I support your choices" and we change lanes with phrasing like, "would you like to put that under management?"

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When asked, "what needs are too much?" about a hypothetical slave seeking a dynamic, remember to reject the premise

D-types are the reverse of the same coin: similar backstories, yet somehow often dodging questions of fitness when we could have asked, "what traits disqualify a D-type for me?"

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ONLINE 7/31, 5:30-7:00 PM CDT! "The Invisible Collar: Psychological Bonding and Attachment in Power Exchange"

Join us on Zoom for this online meeting:

us02web.zoom.us/j/8239112941...

Fetlife Event: fetlife.com/events/1839070

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This weekend's MAsT ATX meeting is OPEN TOPICS: bring your spicy questions! Contact organizer for event info

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A less experienced ballroom dance leader can dance with such a skilled follower that his lead feels unnecessary: she's got it for them without the guiding pressure of his intent, to appearances. But in M/s, that guiding pressure IS the "it" to get, likely the point for you both, and not optional

Girl Feeder™ dropped! +Bluey snack boxes, this ADHD & disordered eating accommodation works. It's also an example of decomposing a task until slaves can succeed. At shops, I can say, "pick something for the wall", a task decoupled from actual consumption that nevertheless correlates with consumption

When you say things like "in M/s, our secret ingredient is TIME," your M/s audience makes noises of approval. Shit, people may clap

But calculate how many rectal ejaculations make one GALLON, to measure your dynamic in VOLUME, and now you're the weird one

#masterslave #m/s #bdsm #almostfourhundred

It's important to celebrate non-escalator relationship milestones, such as anal fisting 🎉

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SIGNALING protocols help to establish and maintain a dynamic

When my girl arrives, pants off

That she strips without being told is a signal to me of her continued investment, and a signal to herself that she is my slave -- thus further enslaving herself each time

Also #pantyfetish, M/s is fun