Interesting quote of the day:

“People aren’t happy unless they’re complaining.”

It’s so fucking defeating not being physically well enough to have any energy nor voice but having everyone be bratty and wanting me to be toppy but not feeling at all capable. 😭😡💔😞😩

Been down with a lingering head cold for the last 2 weeks. Can’t wait for it to go away so I can get back to being productive.

Just got back from #GASP2026 and boy is my arm tired 🥁

But seriously, thank you to everyone who made this event a huge success! And I’m honored to have been trusted enough to play one of the camp directors at @misschris.bsky.social’s Camp Corporal. 🙏

Already looking forward to next year! 

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Suddenly understanding Stephen King’s 6 pages a day writing technique.

Now editing a writing for FetLife to get it shorter. 😆

(((Hugs))) proud of you for even being able to put that out there like this. That takes a lot of strength.

Random advice from the day:

Transformation is a practice, not a plan. Just because you wrote it down or started it, doesn't mean it will happen. Change comes from the choices we make each day, the follow-ups we don't skip, and the determination to keep going.

When you see a post by someone claiming to be a “domme” but they’re asking super basic questions, I find it hard to tell if it’s just engagement bait, they’re new to the lifestyle, or they’re just that ignorant of their craft.

(Per their profile, they’re not that new) 🙄

Happy Turkey Day! However you choose to interpret that.

We’re thankful for our wonderful kinky community. #HappySpankings

New friend at a munch tonight said I had "good energy" and seem to be "alive" around other spankos.

Never had that compliment before.

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#ObligatroyKoalaPic??

Came prepared for our “Legacy of Impact” event at work.

I came prepared, but I may have misunderstood ☹️

It’s meant to be. The new house comes with canes 🤣

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Hate will never have a home here ✊🏼

Your true, authentic self is always welcome.

#NationalComingOutDay

Working late tonight. All dressed up. Found these in my pocket.

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@karinaisabel.bsky.social celebrating 15 years with her 15th spanker (me) on the 15th! 😃😃

(Of course celebrating with 15 swats from 15 implements)

Happy friend-aversary 🎉🎉

That was not an accident 😁

They have vampire ducks? 😱

First duck at the new house #ObligatoryDuckPic

I used to have big dreams and the goal of leaving a lasting legacy once I’m gone.

Now I’d be happy with just making a small difference in people’s lives while I’m here.
#FeelingOld

If you’re a collector, it’s an investment. If you’re a fan, it’s a wish-list item.

Organizing and cataloguing my #spanking / kink-related books (yes, physical #books).

Some unread, some unfinished. (just books, we’ll get to magazines, and digital another time.)

Seems I have some reading to do.

Agreed. That’s what makes it Consensual Spanking day. Only those over 18 can consent.

As they say:
Celebrate responsibly.

We found out just a couple years ago and totally by accident.

Mark your calendar for 8/8 every year (butts / butts, I assume).

But don’t worry, if you don’t celebrate today, rain-checks are valid for 364 more days 😈

It’s ok. If you miss it, rainchecks are good for 364 more days 😈

What??? Let’s remedy that ASAP!

But glad you’re still getting to play!

Can always start again. That’s the joy of progress.