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Kind of looking like an election rally...

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Police protecting their community... There is hope...

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A moment that changed me: I stopped drinking – and realised what friendship really meant I always thought hitting the bottle made me the life and soul of the party, but sobriety helped me to be honest with myself – and make genuine connections with other people

Secular AA: Stonehenge...

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Does anyone here have any experience of UK national returning to UK after 20 years with US spouse?

#UKvisa

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I was a British tourist trying to leave America. Then I was detained, shackled and sent to an immigration detention centre Graphic artist Rebecca Burke was on the trip of a lifetime. But as she tried to leave the US she was stopped, interrogated and branded an illegal alien by ICE. Now back home, she tells others thinking...

Welcome to America...

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Pete Hegseth Calls For Steep Cuts To Number Of Steps In AA Recovery WASHINGTON—Lambasting the current program as wasteful, bloated, and entirely unnecessary, Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth called for steep cuts Monday to the number of steps in the Alcoholics Anonymous...

Pete Hegseth Calls For Steep Cuts To Number Of Steps In AA Recovery

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“The Mornings Are My Afterlife” - Jason Williamson
“The Mornings Are My Afterlife” - Jason Williamson YouTube video by joe bloom

Jason of #SleafordMods speaks about substance abuse

What I will say to anybody that desperately wants to rid themselves of the albatross that is a chemical rut ... at the dread of the daylight coming up because they’ve run out of drugs, the mornings become something so beautiful it’s indescribable.

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A nice cup of tea...

A nice cup of tea...

Stonehenge: cryptic reference

Stonehenge: cryptic reference

1462 days... I've earned my four year chip... but a cup of tea will have to suffice.
Thanks #SecularAA. You don't have to submit to your imaginary friend.
Be seeing you...
www.worldwidesecularmeetings.com/meetings
#alcohol #substanceabuse #zoomzoomzoom

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Check this out... Message me for log in details...

#AA #AlcoholicsAnonymous #SecularAA

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Christmas Day: 25 December
Secular AA Zoom meeting
We're suspending our usual agenda for today. All fellow sufferers welcome to our ad hoc meeting... 
6.00pm UK
1.00pm USeast
10.00am USpacific
There is No God or at this meeting... Just people who recognize that every day spent sober is down to our own selves and the support of fellow sufferers…
Send Chat message to me for details...

Christmas Day: 25 December Secular AA Zoom meeting We're suspending our usual agenda for today. All fellow sufferers welcome to our ad hoc meeting... 6.00pm UK 1.00pm USeast 10.00am USpacific There is No God or at this meeting... Just people who recognize that every day spent sober is down to our own selves and the support of fellow sufferers… Send Chat message to me for details...

Christmas Day: 25 December
Secular AA Zoom meeting
We're suspending our usual agenda for today. All fellow sufferers welcome to our ad hoc meeting...
6.00pm UK
1.00pm USeast
10.00am USpacific

Send Chat message to me for details...

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I’m 8 years clean this week.
I still think the first 3 lagers and then a good tug on the nose is possibly up there with free climbing just above the roof of mist that saturates some distant rain forest in Venezuela. And let’s not forget the slow stroll out of the pub and into the smoking area for a nice nicotine dessert and a good old tap tap on your phone. 
But, I didn’t care and that’s not cool is it? 
I think the reason we all put up with grey walls and car parks full of nub ends is because lager helps dull the pain of it all. I found so much solace in the drunken eye, the fat chromed lager pumps with condensation running down them. The burgundy boarders around the menus, the familiar sound of the hinges on the door that led up the stairs to the toilets.
Manifestations were made, paranoia set. Wages spent. Debts were pinned to me for endless bags of gear that bought with them the lives of others who rolled chaotic snowballs much bigger than mine, down the hill.

I’m 8 years clean this week. I still think the first 3 lagers and then a good tug on the nose is possibly up there with free climbing just above the roof of mist that saturates some distant rain forest in Venezuela. And let’s not forget the slow stroll out of the pub and into the smoking area for a nice nicotine dessert and a good old tap tap on your phone. But, I didn’t care and that’s not cool is it? I think the reason we all put up with grey walls and car parks full of nub ends is because lager helps dull the pain of it all. I found so much solace in the drunken eye, the fat chromed lager pumps with condensation running down them. The burgundy boarders around the menus, the familiar sound of the hinges on the door that led up the stairs to the toilets. Manifestations were made, paranoia set. Wages spent. Debts were pinned to me for endless bags of gear that bought with them the lives of others who rolled chaotic snowballs much bigger than mine, down the hill.

Of course this isn’t life for 'most people'. And now, after 8 years, I think I’m part of that ‘most people’ group. There is another life possible. It’s still full of contradictions, and to a lot of those still in the pub, those contradictions are unacceptable and occasionally I get a good telling off as when you change, people don't necessarily change with you.
It's taken me a long time to forgive myself, but out of that has come a happiness, a state of being that was unknown to me. That's not to say that it's easy street, it isn't. In some respects it's harder as there's nowhere to hide, however the challenge is manageable. Sobriety for me is a very positive place to be in and I truly believe it can be that for everybody.

Of course this isn’t life for 'most people'. And now, after 8 years, I think I’m part of that ‘most people’ group. There is another life possible. It’s still full of contradictions, and to a lot of those still in the pub, those contradictions are unacceptable and occasionally I get a good telling off as when you change, people don't necessarily change with you. It's taken me a long time to forgive myself, but out of that has come a happiness, a state of being that was unknown to me. That's not to say that it's easy street, it isn't. In some respects it's harder as there's nowhere to hide, however the challenge is manageable. Sobriety for me is a very positive place to be in and I truly believe it can be that for everybody.

Got this from someone in a band I follow...
hth...

#friendofbill #secularAA

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‘I hadn’t thought about a drink. Then I saw the pub. Game over’: singer-songwriter Michael Head on beating addiction – again He’s a national treasure to many, with a remarkable songbook spanning more than 40 years. But after kicking heroin twice, he spiralled back into drinking – until an ardent fan saved his life

Beating addiction...
#aa #friendofbill #12stepping

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1 year ago 0 0 0 0

Here I am on day 1224 since I kicked alcohol. I say "kicked", but who knows...
Anyhow, I've built this feed to help us find each other.
Al, FoB Friend of Bill

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Secular AA World Conference, Orlando, Florida

Secular AA World Conference, Orlando, Florida

Happy Hour - WhatsApp group, Stonehenge Secular

Happy Hour - WhatsApp group, Stonehenge Secular

Friend of Bill, but not of God?

World-wide secular AA Zoom meetings here:
www.worldwidesecularmeetings.com/meetings

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The driver will be okay? So fuck pedestrians, cyclists and people in sh!t cars?

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Yeah... they're suckers for a selfy in that town...

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So sorry...

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Kevin Bonafide, you say? Monmouth Beach, NJ.

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2 years ago 1 0 0 0

if anyone wants to harass my dead mom's landlord because he is trying to get into her apartment 3 days after her death despite her paying rent for this month already, his name is kevin bonafide and he lives in monmouth beach nj!

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