how can you
love
in visible ways?

it takes so little to text your friends
or open up a DM, chat, etc
and say something kind
you never know how it can help 💚

Massive anxiety day + AT THE DMV!!!

You are allowed to speak
You are allowed to ask
You are allowed to have boundaries

I hope you are well-paid, well-fed and well-loved.

I just learned at the airport today that mini containers of stress putty or slime I kept in my pocket can show up as an explosive on your butt through TSA scans 💣😩

wow, getting asked to speak for AAPI Heritage Month & I LOVE IT!!!

I'm going to fill up my ENTIRE May, if you are part of an ERG, community or org invite me to speak. If you have budget, GREAT, if you don't - reach out!!!

Easy & fun form to fill out: forms.gle/yADJTrrGrEgV...

I hope you are respected, validated and compensated at work.

An SXSW speaker graphic featuring Cowlitz comedian Joey Clift!

I’m speaking at @sxsw.com ! Come see me on Tuesday, March 17th moderating @goldie.bsky.social ’s book talk "Low-Key Legends: Personal Branding for Introverts.”
If you’re wondering why I’m moderating this, you don’t follow either of us on social media. Go to this and buy Goldie’s book!

Happy International Women’s Day to every single woman who has risked her career, her network and her life to be different. 💚

Ahhh!!!! I'm so excited to open up 5 pro-bono (free!!!) speaking slots for communities, organizations and companies for:
🫰 Women's History Month (March)
🫰 AAPI Heritage Month (May)
These are remote or local (in LA!) spots.
Apply here: forms.gle/ZGkyz2xbXXgr...

SPEAKING UPDATE!! April is fully booked & my heart is full. Every stage and community reminds me why I love this work. From personal branding to leadership to humanizing your brand in age of AI, these convos light me up. April is packed, but the rest of 2026 has space, reach out!

thanks!!!

I can personally vouch for Goldie's insight (I received it in a professional context!), integrity, and character.

She'd be an awesome booking for your company, retreat, whatever.

Looking for your next fireside or guest speaker? I’m sharing Personal Branding for Introverts with private communities and ERGs who value reflection, belonging, and quiet strength, especially AAPI and women‑led groups. If your community champions underheard voices, let’s connect.

LeadsCon Las Vegas 2026 | Top Lead Gen & Performance Marketing Event Join 3,000+ lead gen pros at LeadsCon Las Vegas, Apr 22–24, 2026, for networking, insights, and expert-led sessions at MGM Grand.

I'm thrilled to be speaking at LeadsCon 2026! 🌟

Join me for three days of powerful connections, actionable insights, and conversations that will fill your pipeline and elevate your lead gen strategy.

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#LeadsCon26

Heading across town for a 📗 thing. Throwing in lil Chinese stuff into my speaking wardrobe like this long tassel necklace 🧧🫰🏼

I believe in you
in the spaces
where you cannot

Happy birthday to my wonderful, funny, talented and silly partner @joeytainment.bsky.social I’m always impressed he does so much and still has time to be present for friends and loved ones. One of my favorite things is his smile and I’m thankful to spend another year with this man 💚😹🧡

okay which company can I join as a Chief JOY Officer or Strategist?

would like to build more
real joy in the real world

Get someone who wants to spend Valentines Day smashing stuff with you in a rage room while listening to pop songs from the 1940s. Love you @goldie.bsky.social ! Let’s do this again next year!

I hope we reach a point where we can
talk openly & honestly about
mental health & physical health struggles
in our non-white communities

Trying out a new lighting set up for my laptop and shooting quick videos. No filter, no editing 💚💜

found these 80s stickers (!!) which are you

may you find
tiny joy today
through your body
and your heart
and your mind
and your person
and your people 💚

Beginner cameras for a non-technical person who films themselves!

Is the Sony 6100 good?

are you a newer designer & want to get featured on the splash page of PHOTOSHOP!? (and yes, there's $$) please also share!

apply here! www.behance.net/resources/co...

I've been quietly in the PGA (Producer's Guild) for a while now.

I think producing is a lot like project manager or a traffic conductor - you help move everything along and deal with the accidents as they happen.

Sometimes it's also a relief to *not* be talent or on camera too!

woah!!

The next one begins on February 17, 2026, and many believe it will bring another wave of transformation.
Whether you follow the zodiac closely or lightly, it’s a powerful reminder: some years ask us to move, to grow, and to trust our own fire.