My wife surprised me with a new kink3d cage for Pi Day!

I had sent sizes to her earlier thinking we wouldn’t actually buy one for a few more months. It’s such an upgrade from the “starter” cage I’d been using. And she seems to be actively getting more and more interested in me locking up. 🥰

Molehill I’m willing to die on:

It’s not an accident if it happens in your diaper.

You’re just using your diaper for its intended purpose.

You silly little baby.

It’s always wild to me how much sex lifts my mood. Especially when it’s been over a week since I last came.

This is the aspect of chastity play I’m looking forward to. Cutting down idle masturbation and saving that energy up for great sex like this.

The empath origin story.

I’m not a big fan of how much I hyper fixate on the “new hotness” that got stuck in my brain. Like, sure, I enjoy exploring new things. But I’m realizing just how much it consumes my thoughts and starts to impact my decisions. I want to find a better balance for this.

So during the course of an evening of teasing and pleasing my wife admitted she finds the idea of free use kinda hot. We’ll definitely have to play with that at some point in the future.

If you’ve read this far here’s a bit of spice. I used the wand on my cage yesterday. Technically with permission from my wife. But she did jokingly say that doing so sorta defeats the purpose. So I’m offering pleasure for her today while saying I’m not expecting to cum again for a few days at least.

There’s been a couple days where I started to hit the “unfun” or mundane parts of being caged. I know this is part of this experience but I’m still working on how to get through it without getting too down. I just remind myself that this is what I want and I can stop at any time.

The biggest challenge by far is to stop trying to top from the bottom. I’ve gotten much better about that in the last week or so. I just have to let go of trying to get my wife to be a certain type of key holder. And it’s fun seeing how she approaches this in her own way.

The chastity/caging exploration has been an experience so far. Since I got my first cage a little over a month ago I’ve spent far more days caged than not. It’s like a calming influence on my overactive brain. My wife is mostly engaged with this as well which has been great.

Day 7 of being caged for at least some part of the day at home! 🥰

Including 5 “all day” locked days.

I really do hate my brain sometimes. Like just shut the fuck up can we go a single day without you overthinking everything?

Something I really like about my cage is how it really feels like a contraption. 8 pieces coming together in a very satisfying way. (9 of you count the lock.) It’s very pleasing to look at for the design of it all.

Observation nobody asked for:

Experimenting with a chastity cage for the first time during one of the coldest weeks of the year is certainly a choice.

Wearing the cage a bit longer today. And now I've moved from a safety pin holding it shut to the simple lock that came with it. With my wife holding the key for me.

The horny levels jumped quite a bit with that exchange. 😳

Also looking forward to mixing the cage with diapers. The precum leakage calmed down after the first bit. But, still a good combo to keep things from getting messy. (And the cage naturally points you do so diaper wearing is natural.)

Chastity cage test went very well. Was able to adjust it a couple times and I think I found a good fit. Honestly could have gone longer but I'm going to listen to my wife's advice of not pushing too much too quickly.

Although I do hope to get locked up by her soon.

Oddly enough giving the cage a cute nickname playing off her name for my cock already seems to be resonating with her.

I’m very excited to explore new types of play with this with my wife. I don’t want to overwhelm her with my fantasies on it because she already seems to be taking her own interest in this in hopefully her own way.

Took it off for a minute to readjust things. Gotta find the right arrangement of pieces for the best fit probably still.

My underwear is a mess. So much dripping precum.

Decided to “secure” it with a baby pin. Easily removed and very cute while me not worrying about it coming apart.

My first chastity cage arrived today. Took a few minutes to check it out and am now wearing it for a trial run. Not fully locked just getting a feel.

My wife is enjoying this so far and I feel like she's up for playing along with me in responsible ways.

From

“They’re just in case you wet the bed…”

To

“They‘re just in case you wet your pants…”

To

“Why do you want me to take your diaper off? Because you have to go potty? Your diapers are MADE for going potty in, silly. Just go in your pants, buddy.”

And if you peel back enough of the power dynamics it’s just someone giving me unconditional love and affection taken to the extreme.

So many of my sexual fantasies lately are just power dynamics dressed up in different kinks.

After sharing this with my wife she basically encouraged me to order a cage and we’ll try it out sometime. So… ordered!

My wife had the idea of wetness indicators on adult diapers positioned to show when you’ve cum in them.

(Yes, please.)

I didn’t really need to fantasize about my wife putting me in a chastity cage.

Also today I soaked through 3 stars on my Super Pixel Pals for the first time!

New high score for me!

I am officially out of disposable diapers until my order of Pixel Pals shows up in hopefully a few days. I did not anticipate my wife giving me extra diaper time this week.

(My wearing isn’t gated or controlled by her. She just likes to encourage me to and I like when she tells me to wear.)

Years ago when I would try to mess my diapers I could never quite seem to make it happen.

Fast forward to now when I really don't want to I find myself fighting my body's urge to mess more and more. I fear it may become inevitable one of these days when I'm diapered.