well duh that sounds like it rips

yeah

hhhhh

its funny to think about this in the context of where i work now

yeah im normal abt that

@c0ffincunt.bsky.social baby is this true?

hhhhhh

taking these down to the metal shop and building us a tool for when it happens

yo

that one of the secret menu items?

YOU WANGED MY SHIP!

😵‍💫

vet says i gotta get lots of water in the active months

i care about your input

waow

currently experiencing acute too far from my gfs

exactly, and it was work to get here, through all the repression the church and capitalistic culture tried to hammer into me

the where?

i tell my fuck buddies i love them, i tell my long running kink dynamics i love them, i tell my friends i have no sexual or kinky dynamics with i love them.

worrying that it would blur any lines between any of that is easily precluded by good communication and decoupling love from exclusivity imo

im getting a saber btw :p

and maybe i just have lots of friction w that kind of dom lol, cause i love a scene to feel like a random encounter that turned into a fight that turned horny lmao

but then i find myself thinking like this a lot cause i work somewhere i see a lot of newbie doms making classic mistakes and wanna mentor them some

oh yeah totally, hyperfocus on protocol and not playing w brats aren't like, inherently bad, it's more like the two together feel like the kind of thing that would prompt me to consider if that dom was bringing baggage they hadn't considered or worked on into it

i got space in pgh, we have a spare room at my place

yeah like if it's not conversational i cant loosen up enough to just follow chemistry, also like, i just ask questions as i need information, i figure if its important, it'll come up organically

also, needing a detailed list and strictly not playing w brats feels very unresolved control issues imo

hhhhhh

thats craazy, like, i keep an anonymized notebook of hard and soft limits, allergies and such just to be sure i dont mix up anything important between ppl

but i think making it feel like a job interview is so dry and joyless

sounds like you dodged a bullet

i dont think its inherent any more than pet play, its just widely popular bc of shared experiences/proclivities

but then im very much in the *almost nothing is inherent or fundamental* camp

so true

Siscon! at the gamestore