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Posts by Dan VerBout | Therapist | Healer

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Men’s Mental Health Month is here — and it matters more than ever.

Learn more about why men often avoid therapy — in my latest blog:
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5 months ago 2 0 0 0
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Brainspotting Practitioners — if you’re working toward Brainspotting certification, I’m now offering consultation to support your journey.

📅 Book here: calendly.com/dverbout-innerstrengththerapy
🔗 Learn more: danverbout.com/brainspotting-consultation

#trauma #brainspotting

6 months ago 1 0 0 0
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Walk silently and take turns naming what you see, hear, or smell. Let your senses ground you.

Looking to re-connect with your partner after putting your relationship on pause because of work, kids, and other obligations?

Find us online at IG and FB: @the.rootedself

#relationships #connection

7 months ago 2 0 0 0
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Hug until you both start to feel your heart rates slow down. Stay with it a little longer than usual.

Looking to re-connect with your partner after putting your relationship on pause because of work, and kids?

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#relationships #connection

8 months ago 1 0 0 0
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Instead of saying 'You’re being distant,' say 'Are you feeling kind of shut down right now?'

Looking to re-connect with your partner after putting your relationship on pause because of work, kids, and other obligations?

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#relationships #connection

8 months ago 1 0 0 0
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Sit close without talking for a few minutes — maybe shoulder to shoulder. Just breathe and be near each other.

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#relationships #couples #connection

8 months ago 0 0 0 0
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After a disagreement, try a hug and say, 'I’m still here. I still choose you.' Make it your go-to way to reconnect.

Looking to re-connect with your partner after putting your relationship on pause because of work, kids, and other obligations?

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#relationships #couples #connection

8 months ago 0 0 0 0
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In a tough moment, ask: 'What do you need right now?' Then just listen.

Looking to re-connect with your partner after putting your relationship on pause because of work, kids, and other obligations?

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#relationships #couples #connection

8 months ago 0 0 0 0
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One person gently touches or holds the other with full attention for a minute. Then switch.

Looking to re-connect with your partner after putting your relationship on pause because of work, kids, and other obligations?

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#relationships #couples #connection

8 months ago 1 0 0 0
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New series on tips to manage anxiety!

Come check it out at instagram.com/DanVerBout

#anxiety #mentalhealth

9 months ago 0 0 0 0
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Take turns asking for small things like a hug. Pause and check what your body says.

Looking to re-connect with your partner after putting your relationship on pause because of work, kids, and other obligations?

Find us online at IG and FB: @the.rootedself
#relationships #couples #coaching

9 months ago 1 0 0 0
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Pick a simple hand signal or gesture to show when you're feeling overwhelmed and need kindness or calm.

Looking to re-connect with your partner after putting your relationship on pause because of work, kids, and other obligations? Learn how at rooted-self.com

Online at IG and FB: @the.rootedself

9 months ago 0 0 0 0
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Somatic therapies help when talk therapy hits a wall. The body holds the key.

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#Brainspotting #SomaticExperiencing #PolyvagalTheory

10 months ago 4 2 0 0
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Somatic therapies help when talk therapy hits a wall. The body holds the key.

danverbout.com

#Brainspotting #SomaticExperiencing #PolyvagalTheory

10 months ago 0 0 0 0
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Safety-first environments support healing. Trauma-informed care prioritizes nervous system needs.

danverbout.com

#Brainspotting #SomaticExperiencing #PolyvagalTheory

10 months ago 1 0 0 0
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Focus on long exhalations (e.g., in 4, out 6). This calms your parasympathetic system.

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#Brainspotting #SomaticExperiencing #PolyvagalTheory

10 months ago 1 0 0 0
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Safety can feel alert or energized—not just relaxed. Look for grounded presence, not numbness.

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#Brainspotting #SomaticExperiencing #PolyvagalTheory #Trauma

10 months ago 1 0 0 0
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Fawning (people-pleasing) is a survival strategy. It's how you learned to stay safe.

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#Brainspotting #SomaticExperiencing #PolyvagalTheory #Trauma

10 months ago 0 0 0 0
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Pride is a celebration of love, identity, courage, and the ongoing fight for equality.

This month (and every month), I stand with the LGBTQ+ community with love, respect, and pride.

Let’s continue creating a world where everyone feels safe, seen, and celebrated for who they are. 🏳️‍🌈💖

10 months ago 0 0 0 0
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The window of tolerance is your emotional bandwidth. Healing helps expand your capacity to stay present.

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#Brainspotting #SomaticExperiencing #PolyvagalTheory #Trauma

10 months ago 0 0 0 0
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So much of how we experience the world is based on our nervous system state. Please like, share, and follow to learn more about how you can improve how you experience life and the world around you!

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10 months ago 0 0 0 0

The "Big, Beautiful Bill" will raise our family's health insurance premium by $3k per year making it unaffordable. Several aspects of this bill will be crushing for small business owners.

10 months ago 0 0 0 0
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What Clients Often Feel After Sessions
May include: Relief. Clarity. Sleepiness. A sense of peace. Brainspotting is gentle, but powerful.

Learn more: danverbout.com

#brainspotting #mentalhealth #trauma

11 months ago 0 0 0 0
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Brainspotting for Porn Addiction
You're not broken. Brainspotting can support you in breaking free from compulsive behaviors.

Learn more: danverbout.com

#brainspotting #mentalhealth #trauma #addiction

11 months ago 0 0 0 0
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Hello! I have a new blog post published on "Why Men Avoid Therapy and How Mental Health Services Can Improve Life, Love, and Work". Check it out linked below!

www.danverbout.com/why-men-avoi...

#menshealth #mentalhealth #therapy

11 months ago 0 0 0 0
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India launches attack on 9 sites in Pakistan and Pakistan-occupied Jammu and Kashmir The Indian armed forces launched "Operation Sindoor," hitting nine sites in Pakistan and Pakistan-occupied Jammu and Kashmir, the government said in a statement on Wednesday.

Spoke too soon: www.reuters.com/world/india/...

11 months ago 1 0 0 0

I've seen a few rumblings but nothing substantial yet either.

11 months ago 0 0 1 0
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Definitely a gang member now.

11 months ago 0 0 0 0

He just likes to hear himself talk it seems.

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This madness is exhausting. Hang in there folks.

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