Dude, I’m just not going to worry.

Kind of need to go out, but also very in the mood to just get into bed and call it a day

Two side-by-side images: A young man with black hair stands in a classroom wearing a superhero mask, a woman’s leopard-print halter top and a leopard-print-ish square cut swimsuit. In the next image, a young man with black hair jogs on a treadmill with an attached video screen as a trainer directs him on the screen.

I hate coming up with an idea for a Gay Halloween costume in April. Because wdym you’re Land Leopard who Let Himself Go???

#iykyk #DeepCut

Really sick of this ear infection. Starting to think I’m not giving it enough attention or something. Like I’ve accidentally given the antibiotics too much latitude between the 1st round and 2nd round. 🙄 Or that I’m creating interference against the medicine somehow.

Out of Threads, Bluesky, Mastodon, and The Once And Future Twitter, Threads kinda seems to be winning on my balance sheet these days, but the #HeatedRivalry fandom there may be giving a hefty boost to its capital

Oh, this was a worrisome revelation when I found the thing I found. I decided the best thing was to forget I found it. I couldn’t bring myself to try and good-naturedly blow the whistle

Whenever I’m waiting for a commuter rail train, something in the passengers’ ragtag waiting, rising, standing, meandering, sneering and resignation reminds me of the waiting for the horses to wordlessly thunder past in the Ascot Gavotte from My Fair Lady. music.youtube.com/wa...

I’m already shooketh-ing myself and it isn’t even 9:00 am yet. how very dare I. #LaterSocial

Give me strength.

Woke up this morning with a HIDEOUSLY bad kink in my back just to the left of my neck. Still kind of there but much lessened by now. I mean, maybe it’s age. Whatever. Iced it a bit at times during the day.

Evangelicals, you’re next

that is, *DID* I say I was …

I really hate that it’s 28 degrees F outside and fiercely windy in APRIL.

Funny. Now, I say I was actually trying to flip SOMEBODY off or just seeing if I could make the gesture?

Text reads: YOUR DAY AT A GLANCE. Sexiness is a state of mind. Stop waiting for your body to be perfect before you inhabit it. The thing that makes you attractive isn't flawless skin or the right outfit - it's the moment you stop apologizing for existing.

I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to stop apologizing for existing @costarastrology

Anybody got any tips?

Hudson Williams gives the double middle finger on the red carpet for the 2026 Golden Globe Awards.

I do need to practice. After some fiddling I could do it with the left hand, but it’s still awkward and getting into position is goofy.

As for my inspiration:

And sure, there is a non-zero chance this ends with the complete fall of civilization, but a) me posting that won’t help either way, and b) in the meantime, I’m more concerned with the more likely immediate atrocities my taxes are funding.

The scolding from people to anyone not posting about how we’re all going to die is some weird magical thinking shit. Like on some level you believe that we all need to be constantly posting about how we’re all going to die to prevent that from happening.

It does make me wonder if any episodes could go to Ryan and Fabian and/or Eric and Kyle. Extra special season 2.5? Presumably U will be season 3. Which is all, technically, Shane and Ilya have signed on for - though Ilya shows up in ALL the stories. #HeatedRivalry ❤️
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Hammering through the Game Changers books. Finally made it to TLG. I was honestly teary-eyed by the end of RM. If Troy and Harris are the ‘other’ couple next season on #HeatedRivalry because of those books’ concurrence I could dig it. ❤️
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This is how often I flip somebody off. Never. I just tried doing the double flip-off with both hands. That is something I’ve NEVER tried before. I can’t make the bird with my left hand!!! 😂 … it just becomes a - I don’t know, a grizzled wizened mess.

There’s some game being played that everybody else knows the rules to and has experienced strategy for and I don’t. And I try and tell myself it’s all in my head and I just need to buck up confidence. Nothing works.

i have to be screened and I have to be screened goddamn soon and if i’m somehow not actually found to be neurodivergent or ADD or ADHD or ASD or RSD or SOME FUCKING THING i am going to be so fucking pissed. I know life isn’t fair but this isn’t fucking fair TO ME.

“These” - when people turn away from me - “are the times that try men’s souls.”

to YOU I’m cute. to THEM I’m a reject.

I’m doing it wrong and everybody else knows how to do it right and isn’t going to coach me.

to YOU I’m cute. to THEM I’m A reject

A gay bar plays an episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race

How easily one forgets what’s likely to be happening at a gay bar at 9 pm on a Friday night 😆

Just saw someone wearing a pair of Celine brand underwear (it was the waistband peeking out). HAVE YOU SEEN HOW MUCH ONE PAIR OF UNDERWEAR COSTS FROM THEM? is every piece MADE BY HAND?!

It was all those bright mustardy-with-some-red yellow VFA shirts. Except one guy (maybe two?) had an OG Tim and Eric (Tom Goes To The Mayor) “RATS OFF TO YA!” shirt. I told him I should get one of those 😄

got to share this @bencollins.bsky.social banger with some colleagues today and am now sharing it here because he really did nail it