Absolutely. I hear & see adverts for rest homes that are all honouring the individual and continuing to live your life.
If they want to honour the residents, do what resonates with them, not what’s comfortable or has always been done.
It drove me mad with Tony’s rest homes. War time hits and bloody Sound of Music. Absolutely deathly.
He needed the Beach Boys and Pink Floyd etc.
100% re the virtue signalling.
If this is what you think of when you think of Christianity, fuck off. A child raping, war mongering, corrupt thief should never be a religion's poster person. 🤮
I'm not a Christian, and I've never felt more grateful for that.
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😂 flipping hurt too
My boobs means it’s not on a flat surface 🫣
It’s so cold I’m watching art videos in bed with the iPad on my chest. It just flopped over and whacked me on the mouth 😳 And yep, there’s blood. Honest to dog, I need a minder some days.
Pretty easy to tell what’s on my mind aye!
What about stinky socks?
Eek. That sounds … less than ideal. 🫂
Oh god - sounds right 🤢
So cold 🥶 It’s rare for me to wear two layers at home except for the middle of winter. Yeah nah - skivvy, hoodie, track pants and socks. Gas heater on.
Jesus!
I use Genesis evenpay, or whatever it’s called these days, so I pay the same every month based on the year prior. Between Mum then Tony I’ve been running the house at rest home temps since 1998. I’d never had managed otherwise. It’s evenly hideous instead of peaks.
😳
Yes. People self soothe when times are tough - smoking, drugs, alcohol, sex, food…
But hey, let’s gut funding to the sciences.
Oh I’m so sorry for your loss 🫂💔
It’s such a journey and not one we’ve chosen 🫂💔
That made me teary. I’m not sure why, which I guess shows how unsettled I am. Thank you for your kindness.
Oh Christine 💔
Thank you. I really didn’t expect that to happen. It was so real even when I knew it wasn’t.
Yes. We’ve been through most firsts. His birthday isn’t until August. It was so unexpected (the blip, not his death).
My brain decided last night, as we head towards just months since Tony died, that he can’t possibly be gone. I knew it wasn’t true, that he really is dead, but …
It didn’t last long but just why? Why do our brains do this to us 😖
I removed myself from FB & don’t miss it at all.
Absolutely love the energy in this.
No, they absolutely don’t. And therein lies a lot of the world’s problems.
I love that description Matty ❤️
