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Happy 3rd anniversary to us! Thank you to our contributors, readers, commenters, event attendees, subscribers, and supporters! We're 200+ essays in and look forward to many more! Check out our archives: opensecretsmagazine.com/archive

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Photo of a gift and photo of Rachel Kramer Bussel and boyfriend, I Spent $2,000 on a Birthday Gift for My Boyfriend—His Face Fell When He Opened It

Photo of a gift and photo of Rachel Kramer Bussel and boyfriend, I Spent $2,000 on a Birthday Gift for My Boyfriend—His Face Fell When He Opened It

My @newsweek.com essay about a very expensive birthday gift, Bruce Springsteen fandom, love, and emotional recovery from miscarriage is up. It’s been 5 years in the making. www.newsweek.com/expensive-bi...

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Why strong writers stay stuck, and what actually gets a piece published
April 2, 2 pm ET
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Photos of Paulette Perhach and Rachel Kramer Bussel Why strong writers stay stuck, and what actually gets a piece published April 2, 2 pm ET Instagram Live

Join me and writer and writing coach @pauletteperhach.bsky.social April 2 at 2 p.m. ET on Instagram Live (paulettejperhach and rachelkramerbussel on Instagram) for a Q&A about what I’m looking for as editor-in-chief of @opensecretsmag.bsky.social and my tips on writing and selling personal essays!

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What I Talk About When I Talk About My Neurodivergent Husband
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@lorit-s.bsky.social writes about what it was like to be married to a neurodivergent husband: opensecretsmagazine.com/p/husband-ad...

“I would ask him on Monday to do something on Thursday and, by Thursday, not only was the plan ignored, he often had no recollection of our conversation.”

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Please Don’t Tell Me How to Feel About My Breast Cancer
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Please Don’t Tell Me How to Feel About My Breast Cancer Opensecretsmagazine.com Open Secrets Magazine Photo of Giulia Rozzi in fuck off eye mask and doing peace sign in hospital bed

Thank you to @giuliarozzi.bsky.social for this very real look at having breast cancer, missing her boobs, and what not to say to someone facing a cancer diagnosis. Follow her for more about her ongoing health journey.
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Open Secrets Magazine Live personal storytelling summit
May 2, 2026
250 W. 95th St. NYC
Symphony Space Leonard Nimoy Thalia
Jeff Hiller, Murray Hill, Youngmi Mayer
Full list of speakers
produced and organized by Rachel Kramer Bussel
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Open Secrets Magazine Live personal storytelling summit May 2, 2026 250 W. 95th St. NYC Symphony Space Leonard Nimoy Thalia Jeff Hiller, Murray Hill, Youngmi Mayer Full list of speakers produced and organized by Rachel Kramer Bussel opensecretsmagazine.com

Writers are literary rock stars to us! May 2 in NYC is Open Secrets Live at @symphonyspace.bsky.social's Leonard Nimoy Thalia! 43 speakers! Writing tips galore! Books! Keynotes @boomboomhiller.bsky.social @hillmurray.bsky.social & @youngmimayer.bsky.social. opensecretsmagazine.com/p/open-secre...

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alexis (@anbotus) Being a bit vulnerable these days by learning about sports and then talking loudly about it… many thanks to @Open Secrets Magazine for working on this with me!

Being a bit vulnerable these days by learning about sports and then talking loudly about it… many thanks to @opensecretsmag.bsky.social for working on this with me!

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Open Secrets Magazine Book Club
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Open Secrets Magazine Book Club opensecretsmagazine.com March 24, 7 pm EST Substack Live Jesse James Rose photo of Jesse James Rose and cover of memoir sorry i keep crying during sex

Open Secrets Magazine Live, May 2, 2026, 250 W. 95th St., Symphony Space Leonard Nimoy Thalia, speaker Jesse James Rose and photo of Jesse James Rose

Open Secrets Magazine Live, May 2, 2026, 250 W. 95th St., Symphony Space Leonard Nimoy Thalia, speaker Jesse James Rose and photo of Jesse James Rose

Here's 2 opportunities to hear Jesse James Rose @jamesissmiling.bsky.social! Join our free Open Secrets Book Club and read Jesse's memoir sorry i keep crying during sex. Online Q&A March 24 at 7 pm ET. And join us in person May 2 in NYC at Open Secrets Live! opensecretsmagazine.com/p/jesse-jame...

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Thank you to everyone we connected with at @awpwriter.org! Please submit your work, check out our essays, and enjoy your zines. opensecretsmagazine.com

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We can't wait to have Frighten the Horses author @oliverradclyffe.bsky.social on this panel! We had to make a change due to speaker availability and instead of Chloe Caldwell @jackiedwrites.bsky.social, author of memoir in essays No Offense, will be on this panel with everyone else listed.

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Open Secrets Magazine Live
May 2, 2026
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Keynote speaker
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250 West 95 St., NYC

Photos of Jeff Hiller and Murray Hill and Youngmi Mayer Open Secrets Magazine Live May 2, 2026 Jeff Hiller and Murray Hill and Youngmi Mayer Keynote speaker Symphony Space Leonard Nimoy Thalia 250 West 95 St., NYC

Open Secrets Live is on May 2 in NYC! 30+ memoir authors, editors from Abrams, @catapultbooks.bsky.social, One Signal, Tiny Reparations Books, @nytimes.com, & @slate.com, & keynotes by @boomboomhiller.bsky.social, Murray Hill, & @youngmimayer.bsky.social! Tix: opensecretsmagazine.com/p/open-secre...

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Object-ives #23: Unlit What a small candle taught me about living

Responding to a prompt to write about an object, it was a candle bought on a dull Thursday morning in 2017 that held an odd, lingering resonance. For years, my refusal to light it told me too much about myself.

Thanks to @opensecretsmag.bsky.social for sharing this small essay.

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Open Secrets Magazine Live
May 2, 2026
Jeff Hiller and Murray Hill
Keynote speaker
Symphony Space
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250 West 95 St., NYC

Photos of Jeff Hiller and Murray Hill Open Secrets Magazine Live May 2, 2026 Jeff Hiller and Murray Hill Keynote speaker Symphony Space Leonard Nimoy Thalia 250 West 95 St., NYC

*NEWS* Actors, comedians, and memoirists @hillmurray.bsky.social are closing keynote speakers at personal storytelling summit Open Secrets Live on May 2 @symphonyspace.bsky.social's Leonard Nimoy Thalia in NYC. Visit
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I Throw Pottery. Would I Throw My Career, Too? After the chaos of the last government shutdown—and a hard year of loss and change—federal workers like me face a tough decision.

Thanks @opensecretsmag.bsky.social for publishing my little flash story on a moment of struggle- and clarity- for #federalworkers like me this year. opensecretsmagazine.com/p/pottery-ho...

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The Gun That Exploded My Marriage
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For Gun Appreciation Day, we put our own spin on things with this essay, “The Gun That Exploded My Marriage,” by Rebecca Agiewich, which we encourage all spouses of gun owners to check out. Read it at opensecretsmagazine.com/p/marriage-g...

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You’ve Heard About Who ICE Is Recruiting. The Truth Is Far Worse. I’m the Proof. What happens when you do minimal screening before hiring agents, arming them, and sending them into the streets? We're all finding out.

A few months ago, ICE hired me

I didn't sign and submit any paperwork. I almost certainly failed the drug test. I'm real outspoken about my opposition to the Trump administration, and I am extremely googlable

And yet, there it was, in plain English. "Welcome to ICE!"

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Never Buy a Goldfish How I acquired an anxious new hobby

A few months ago, my daughter won a goldfish at the fair. That was the start of my s̶p̶i̶r̶a̶l̶ uh, new hobby. I wrote about it for @opensecretsmag.bsky.social:

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A white person’s hand holds up a book in front of a dark teal background. The book is Make Good Trouble: Discovering Movements that Sparked Change by Jamia Wilson. On the cover is a stylized cartoon drawing of a young Black woman on one knee and calling out to make her voice heard.

A white person’s hand holds up a book in front of a dark teal background. The book is Make Good Trouble: Discovering Movements that Sparked Change by Jamia Wilson. On the cover is a stylized cartoon drawing of a young Black woman on one knee and calling out to make her voice heard.

Book rec: Make Good Trouble by @jamiaawilson.bsky.social. Great for inspiring young adult readers (and olds like me) in these awful times. The varied fonts, speech bubbles, and drawings keep things fresh and AHDH friendly. I was lucky to meet Jamia at @opensecretsmag.bsky.social ‘s 2025 conference

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Thank you for reading and sharing our food insecurity essays, and for all your submissions. We’re proud to be able to respond to the news and offer personal takes on what are often framed solely as “issues” without close attention to the individuals and nuances behind these issues.

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And while any individual essayist is only speaking for themselves, we know many others are working but still unable to make ends meet, but are earning too much to qualify for government assistance.

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I Make Too Much for Government Assistance, So Community Feeds My Family
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Our final personal essay of 2025 is part of our food insecurity series and Moriah Richard’s title, “I Make Too Much for Government Assistance, So Community Feeds My Family,” says it all. Read it at opensecretsmagazine.com/p/post-divor...

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Photo of Rachel Kramer Bussel holding baby while sitting down and text overlay: “I’ve wanted to be a mom for 20 years and I’m more proud to be one than any professional achievement.”

I Am My Kid's Mom And I Like When You Call Me That
Some outspoken moms are offended that their names are erased from public interactions as parents and replaced with "Mom." I cannot relate.

Photo of Rachel Kramer Bussel holding baby while sitting down and text overlay: “I’ve wanted to be a mom for 20 years and I’m more proud to be one than any professional achievement.” I Am My Kid's Mom And I Like When You Call Me That Some outspoken moms are offended that their names are erased from public interactions as parents and replaced with "Mom." I cannot relate.

Closing out 2025 with an essay about motherhood and identity at Another Jane Pratt Thing in their Unpopular Opinion section. It’s free to read and Jane Pratt is a thoughtful and smart editor and has cultivated such a lovely community online where she joins in too. open.substack.com/pub/janeprat...

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Just Like Christmas How my impossible manager’s comeuppance was the best workplace gift I could have received

Merry Christmas. Here's something of mine published today in @opensecretsmag.bsky.social about a bad manager and a very happy day.
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Thrilled to Announce by C.E. McKenna | Hippocampus Magazine "There she is: white girl drunk on the dance floor of the Reed student union" -- from the essay "Thrilled to Announce" by C.E. McKenna in the Nov-Dec 2025 issue.

Want to know what it feels like to be a #tech worker looking for a #job in the age of #ai?

It feels a lot like a bad one-night stand.

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Exciting news: Open Secrets will have a table at @awpwriter.org in Baltimore March 4-7 selling swag and essay zines (yes, zines!) and will be hosting book signings! We're working out all the details now but if you're a contributor to or reader of Open Secrets, we hope to connect with you there.

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Take note! #AWP26 goers:

The Fine Art of Literary Submission and Rejection: Secrets of the Editors
...a walkable off-site you won't want to miss if you want to break into the lit mags.

Watch for our listing!

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How to Submit to The Queer Love Project The Queer Love Project is open for submissions from all interested writers. We publish essays that are original and not previously published on any other platforms.

We want your personal essays that reveal heartbreaks, happiness, secrets, sexual encounters and the realities of dating. Anything that answers the question: “What do you know about love?”
Here's how to submit:
queerloveproject.substack.com/p/coming-soon

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Object-ives # 11: The Hardest Working Dress on the Planet Memories of cloth and armor for a rebellious promgoer

Object-ives # 11: The Hardest Working Dress on the Planet
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The Exhausting Mathematics of Hunger While Receiving SNAP How ill health and being poor impact my eating

I’m a guest writer on Open Secrets Magazine!
I’m on SNAP for the second time as a single mother. Only this time, I’m also ill with medically required diets for two of my diagnoses.
The Exhausting Mathematics of Hunger While Receiving SNAP
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