You have the best outfits. 🥰

Eyyyyyyyy. Awesome!

Oooooo I love the view!

Oh shoot. I gotta go cuddle so many girls then.

I have indeed been dragged away from my cozy cat bed to come see the fine critters at Rubbout 2026. We’ve been around the event spreading the word of our new con wearing our brand new Tails of Summer promo shirts. Expect to see me at more events leading up to our con August 8-9, 2026.

So if you want to vend at this cool (in my totally unbiased opinion) new convention you have to get your application in soon. 😸

Yeah anxiety can be a bitch like that. I worry people are only friends with me because of things I can do for them so I relate a lot to this.

Yeah I feel that a lot

Yeah that would be amazing.

Truly the dream

Put this sticker here weeks ago. Glad to see it’s still around :)

Didn’t help you were super high too

Oooooo watch party!

Is this a surprise? I’ve known this since I met you.

Ok yeah it’s not great. Paying $3550 for 3 bedrooms.

See I just live somewhere it doesn’t snow. Don’t have to shovel the rain.

Yeah therapy is good. Been seeing mine since 2023.

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Nooooooooooooo

Honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if I’ve legitimately raised your blood pressure from you dealing with me. 😸
#whimsycanbehazardousforyourhealrh

This is painfully accurate 😹

It’s so perfectly on brand for us though. I do something whimsically silly and we yap. It’s quintessentially us.

I will continue to use myself and my platform to uplift the trans community and to show those who can't see the path to being their authentic selves that it is possible. I'm visible not for myself, but for those who will see me and believe in themselves as I did.

This is why visibility is so important. If I hadn't seen examples in my own life, I never would've been able to get to where I am today.

I'll forever be more grateful than I can put into words for the people around me who enabled me to live as who I am.

Today I'm reminded that I wouldn't have had the self-curiosity to explore my identity or the courage to pursue living as myself without those who have come out before me. Those who have lived their own authentic lives and shown me that it was possible.

I also wouldn't have met my wonderful partner @alolanraichu.bsky.social, who I love dearly and who has to put up with my chaotic nature since she lives in my house.

Living my life authentically as a trans woman has opened me up to so much more joy in my life. Without accepting myself, I wouldn't have started talking to my bestie @emkat.co who started talking to me after I built a prop canon that shot a Blahaj for Vancoufur 2025.

But I think the most significant changes have been how it's affected my friendships and how I've finally been able to open myself to romantic relationships. I've become a much different person than I was before I came out and even from who I was this time last year.

Since the last TDoV I've more fully accepted myself in order to live my life more authentically. I've legally changed my name to my preferred name, and I've pursued more gender affirming care than HRT alone (on the list for bottom surgery).

I've been publicly out as a trans woman since December 2024. For TDoV 2025, I still didn't feel like I'd accepted enough of myself to be visible. I'd come out, I'd changed my preferred name, I'd even started changing my regular wardrobe, but there was still a lot of myself I was suppressing.