“What’s it like, being able to read?” I ask the hotel staffer who just showed me the very clearly labeled decaf.
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Yesss I love it so much.
Hey now, that's crazy talk.
Priceless's next experiment in being anticapitalist is Give A Penny Take A Penny (GAPTAP). You can participate here: gofund.me/fb63102b2
My org is hiring a TPM. I am happy to talk with you about this role so you can decide if it's for you and hone your resume more. job-boards.greenhouse.io/gofundme/job...
If you want some promising news today, Seed Commons has released its annual impact report about non-extractive, locally-based co-op based lending. I put some of my money here, and if you have extra, you should, too. seedcommons.org/projects/202...
I am fine, it's just a lot of people around me have been dying.
For my birthday this year, I'm testing out my death notification infrastructure, leading a session on digital estate planning, & asking that people write me honest missives about what our relationship is like. You can find out more details and see more context here: blog.bl00cyb.org/2026/03/cele...
What are signs of a mature security org? Especially looking for outcomes and metrics.
I'll be at #sfbsides most of today and for tomorrow morning. Come say "hi" — I've still got blue hair, just more heavily tattoo'd than I used to be.
What skill would you wish to impart from Old Internet to New Internet? My personal kingdom for the understanding of announce versus discuss.
Man, fuck having a nervous system that longs for stability but a brain that insists on “it’s quiet here… maybe TOO quiet…”
When Locke pees through his diaper overnight, he comes to get me to change his sheets. I pile his blankets on top of him on the floor to keep him warm while I do so. This moment always feels sacred to me. The mundane is so cherished.
Reflections on #unprompted con, on overlap of AI and security. Includes complexity, trust, and things I actually WILL do differently. blog.bl00cyb.org/2026/03/unpr...
A thing I've been meaning to write for a long time: how I think governance and economics *should* work: blog.bl00cyb.org/2026/02/deci... Very brief, hoping to start a longer conversation.
Why Newsom and his ilk are not a winning option to fascism, part 139847: antiauthoritarianplaybook.substack.com/p/the-roosev...
Reflections on drinking, given I come from a family of alcoholics. With data! blog.bl00cyb.org/2026/02/comi...
One of my most beloved projects, the Lantern Library, has found a new home but needs some help getting there. More, and a way to help, here: blog.bl00cyb.org/2026/02/my-b...
My little desk buddies Locke gave me.
Astronauts and Olympic athletes have to also talk about what comes after the big thing they’re training for. You are also that great, what we are doing is also that hard. Remember what comes after.
I dedicate 70% energy in the normal I want to live in, and 30% to getting to that normal if we’re not there yet. Your mix will be different. Be intentional.
For those struggling to do day to day tasks in the face of all this : we have to have a normal to return to when we’re through all this. It’s valuable work to establish and maintain that baseline.
This weekend is about cleaning out a dead sweetie's kitchen and then supporting protests and neighbor kid dinner. That plus getting that blog post out this morning means The Entire Set of Emotions, I think.
I would refuse to work w Aspiration if you care about making change in social justice, & I'm willing to tell you why if you ask me. I have tried to talk with Gunner about this and he didn't take it on board the 1st time & hasn't been willing to meet a 2nd time. blog.bl00cyb.org/2026/01/sayi...