For randos, I'm fine with "Stego". For friends, variations of that are generally fine.

For a partner, dom, CG, or someone else in charge? I'll melt when called 'pet' names like kiddo, cuck, tyke, toy, etc.

I'm basically looking for a guy who will find enjoyment and fulfillment out of fundamentally re-sculpting somebody else as their Dom/Dad/CG from the ground up and the knowledge that the end result was their doing.

And that's hard to find.

Incidentally this is also why I leave the "final output" up to the partner. Maybe it's me as a little, maybe I'm a house servant, maybe it's something else I can't quite conceive, but the important (to me) part is the inputs, less so the output.

MAGNETO WAS RIGHT

I'm not saying I can't or won't contribute to that end, only that there's a "learning curve" of sorts before I can optimally perform within said relationship. The more intense at the onset, the faster I can start reciprocating and serving and rewarding that input.

I need the constant structure, and discipline, and attention, and affection, at least until old traumas are healed and new behaviors/changes are cemented. It's not simply roleplaying as a dom/dad/cg, it's literally being parent to & retraining/sculpting/changing me into a better version of myself.

I know part of the reason I'm struggling to find a partner is that the relationship I'm seeking is intrinsically very needy in terms of attention and energy. I get that, I acknowledge that, and I know it's asking for a lot, but I also can't think of anything else I need more than that for my health

then clearly you've yet to have good french toast! :O. gotta have the right thickness and kind and age of bread, a perfect egg wash, dusting with powdered sugar and legit maple syrup <3

it's tmi tuesday and am feeling rather smol today so ask away and i shall answer

favorite cat toy?

Excuse both of you, but have you considered french toast?

a can of diet coke has ~2/3rds the caffeine content of a single migraine med (46mg vs 65mg). unless you're taking two of them or more (which you shouldn't - that's a lot of caffeine and you're gonna want to sleep/lay down), the pills+soda method is better.

life hack:

most migraine meds are some combination of low-dose acetaminophen and caffeine, sometimes with aspirin.

don't buy it. just take normal pain meds and chug a can of soda for the same effects.

weh.

morning migraines suck of all the migraines. you wake up expecting to start the day but your head is all "lol nah" and your stomach is doing backflips and all the morning lights are pure satan energy.

at least i was diapered so i could just take some acetaminophen, chug a soda, and back2bed

I resent being made to feel I’m at fault for something without being told what, how, why, or any feedback whatsoever.

Fuck you. I deserve an answer, even if it’s just being let down.

I intensely dislike the modern phenomena of ghosting someone (reasonably) expecting a response.

Be it dudes flaking out repeatedly when I try to arrange a meet, or prospective employers putting me through the wringer, having either just up and vanish or go silent sends my OCD into overdrive.

Someone lost a clicker trainer out on my walk and now I’m in possession of it. What to do, what to do.

…the actual fuck.

I should be bound to a bed or crib in segufix, taped into thick diapers, locked in chastity, force-fed cannabis and tucked into hypnosis/brainwashing all day.

Instead, I'm looking for work >:(

I can’t celebrate today because I’m staying clean while looking for work ;-; Not fair

I need a strong man in my life to discipline me.

I want some fun dinosaur-themed socks in thigh-high and knee-high varieties that aren't just cheap Chinese silkscreen prints on bottom-dollar fabrics.

My leggies are cold when I'm in a onesie.

Sign my butt up!

I have, and I'd rather not!

Adding to this: some of the art that's done me the most good has been vent art of someone else's that I related to in that moment. It reminds me that I'm not alone in my feelings, but that I am the only one in control of them.

For what it's worth, you're far from the only one with such a desire. I'm right there with ya, 100%.

What a cute little guy! So handsome, especially all zonked like that.

I'm a stage hand furry (always in the background, oft overlooked, largely known only through the art they commission for themselves in lieu of social interactions, secretly builds or runs the infrastructure everyone else uses).

I love the insidious corruption of this idea, you two.

This is one of the silver linings of getting older: it's that much more embarrassing to be teased for still being in diapers/little.