This is your sign to stop planning boring events.
It’s ideal for groups who want something different without having to organize every detail themselves. We handle the flow, you enjoy the night.
Simple. Memorable. Way more fun than another standard event.
Every emotion has a purpose — even the ones we try to ignore or shut down. Anger can signal boundaries, anxiety can flag risk, and sadness can point to loss or unmet needs.
Our training, Emotional Rescue, breaks down what emotions are actually trying to tell us, and how to respond instead of react.
Join us for an unforgettable evening of mystery, and mission-driven impact. Gather your suspects, secure your tickets, and get ready to solve a mystery.
📅 May 30, 2026
📌 Bank and Baron, Calgary
🎟 thehestiaproject.ca
Tickets on sale until May 7, 2026. Secure your spot while you still can!
Harm happened. Now what? Ignoring it doesn’t fix it, punishment alone doesn’t always change it.
Restorative justice provides a structured process where harm can be acknowledged, and those responsible take meaningful accountability. It ensures the needs and voices of those affected are prioritized.
Plot twist: your quiet friend did it.
One of the best parts of a private murder mystery? Watching people step out of their usual roles. The quiet one becomes suspiciously strategic. The loud one cracks under pressure. The competitive one thrives.
By the end of the night, everyone’s invested.
Burnout doesn’t happen because you skipped one self-care day. It happens when your needs are ignored for too long.
Our training, Fill Your Cup, helps you identify what your body and mind actually need, and how to build routines that support those needs in a realistic, sustainable way.
When a child’s behaviour becomes harmful, parents are often left carrying it alone. We’ve launched a training program focused on supporting parents navigating child-to-parent abuse. This training provides practical tools while acknowledging the complexity of parenting in these situations.
Join us for an unforgettable evening of mystery, mayhem, and mission-driven impact. Gather your suspects, secure your tickets, and get ready to solve a crime for a cause.
📅 May 30, 2026
📌 Bank and Baron Pub, Calgary
🎟 thehestiaproject.ca
Drama on stage. Change in real life.
Like any skill, accountability improves with practice. The more you engage with it, the more natural it becomes over time.
It’s not about a point where you never make mistakes. It’s about building the ability to respond to them in a way that supports growth and better outcomes moving forward.
Trust no one. Especially your friends. Private murder mystery events are designed to get people talking, thinking, and fully engaged. Guests will form alliances, interrogate each other, and piece together clues.
If you’re looking for an experience people will actually remember, this is it.
Not every act of accountability will be acknowledged. Sometimes, the work happens quietly, without recognition. That doesn’t make it less important. Accountability is about aligning your actions with your values. It’s something you do for your own growth and integrity, not for approval from others.
If you’re in frontline, your nervous system is basically doing squats all day. Our vicarious trauma training covers how to spot the early red flags, how to create boundaries that don’t feel fake or impossible, and how to recover when burnout has been dragging you for months.
Accountability doesn’t happen in isolation. The way you act and communicate affects the people around you. Ignoring impact damages relationships over time.
Recognizing those effects and taking steps toward repair is a key part of accountability.
Defensiveness is a natural reaction, especially when something feels personal. When you’re focused on responding, you’re not fully hearing what’s being said.
Practicing accountability means learning to pause that reaction, listen, and take in the information before deciding how to respond.
Our restorative justice program is now live — built for real conversations, accountability, and opportunities to repair harm. This isn’t about minimizing what happened. It’s addressing it directly and creating space for meaningful change. If we want different outcomes, we need different approaches.
One-off situations are easier to address, but patterns are where real work happens. If the same issue keeps coming up, it’s worth looking deeper at what’s driving it. Accountability at this level requires self-awareness and honesty.
A killer night out — literally.
Join us for an unforgettable evening of mystery, mayhem, and mission-driven impact. Gather your suspects, secure your tickets, and get ready to solve a crime for a cause.
Drama on stage. Change in real life.
📅 May 30 2026
📌 Bank and Baron Pub
🎟 thehestiaproject.ca
Trust isn’t built through perfection — it’s built through accountability. When people see you acknowledge mistakes and follow through on change, it creates a sense of reliability. Over time, consistent accountability shows people they can count on you, even when things don’t go perfectly.
April is Second Chance Month. A reminder that one decision shouldn’t define someone forever.
Second chances aren’t about ignoring harm, they’re about recognizing humanity. They’re about creating pathways forward so people can rebuild, reconnect, and contribute in ways that matter.
There’s a difference between accountability and self-criticism. One is constructive and focused on growth, the other is often harsh and unproductive.
Effective accountability means being honest about what happened while also focusing on what you can do next.
April is sexual assault awareness month 💜
This is a time to get real about something that impacts far too many people, yet still gets minimized, ignored, or buried in silence. It thrives in environments where victim-blaming, stigma, and discomfort shut down conversations before they even start.
Perfection is unrealistic, and chasing it often leads to burnout or avoidance. Accountability is about staying engaged in the process.
Consistency is what builds change over time. Small adjustments, repeated effort, and a willingness to keep going are what actually make a difference.
Private murder mystery events turn a regular night into a fully interactive experience. Each guest steps into a character with their own backstory, secrets, and motives.
Perfect for birthdays, celebrations, or just doing something way more interesting than the usual dinner plans.
You can’t respond well if you don’t know what you’re looking at. This training, Identifying Conflict, walks through how to identify abuse, how to avoid harmful myths, and how to respond without escalating risk. Because staying silent or misreading the signs isn’t neutral — it has impact.
Blame can feel protective — it puts responsibility somewhere else. That takes away your ability to create change. If everything is someone else’s fault, there’s nothing for you to adjust. Accountability brings the focus back to what you can control: your actions, your responses, and your decisions.
Discomfort is a natural part of accountability. It brings up vulnerability, defensiveness, or fear of judgment. But avoiding discomfort usually means avoiding growth too. Learning to sit with that discomfort, instead of shutting it down, creates space for honest reflection and meaningful change.
Apologizing can feel like the hardest part, it’s only the beginning. Without changed behaviour, an apology doesn’t actually repair anything. Over time, repeated apologies without action can even damage trust further. Accountability is about making adjustments that reflect what you said you'd change.
Mistakes are part of being human. Avoiding, minimizing, or pretending it didn’t happen often causes more damage than the original mistake. Accountability means acknowledging what happened, taking responsibility. That follow-through is what builds trust and shows growth over time.
A killer night out — literally.
Join us for an unforgettable evening of mystery, mayhem, and mission-driven impact. Gather your suspects, secure your tickets, and get ready to solve a crime for a cause.
📅 May 30 2026
📌 Bank and Baron Pub, Calgary
🎟 thehestiaproject.ca
Avoidance feels easier in the moment, but it rarely leads to better outcomes. When accountability is avoided, issues don’t disappear. Over time, that creates tension, resentment, and breakdowns in trust. Choosing accountability early can prevent that escalation.
