I did it. It was the only successful way I found to get through all the anger. I’m not “over it”, it’s still there, but it hasn’t consumed me for several years now.
I don’t know your specifics but if you decide to try it, I hope you gain what you need in due time. ❤️
New on t4toy: I expected to love it, but I didn’t enjoy the Vibepad 2 at all. Let me tell you why.
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"Let me know if you’re inserted!"
—My favorite typo in adult toy marketing correspondence
Your legal name is NOT your real name unless YOU say it is.
Something new and different on t4toy today… Shall I turn Vibrator Autopsy into a recurring feature? Are any other sex toy fans and/or geeks interested in this? 🙂
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I’ve gotta differentiate it from my Dremel oscillating tool, you know! 😉😁
Something new and different on t4toy today… Shall I turn Vibrator Autopsy into a recurring feature? Are any other sex toy fans and/or geeks interested in this? 🙂
t4toy.com/essays/vibra...
Ugh, PayPal is the worst. 😖 They’re holding my funds* hostage until I provide them with certain info about my business, but their web page for actually providing that info is broken regardless of which browser I use. 🤦♀️
* Fortunately, that’s only one transaction. _NEVER_ CARRY A BALANCE with them!
Makes sense to me. 🙁 Here’s hoping the spin cycle ends soon for you.
CW: Epstein
So apparently it’s all fine and dandy* to sexually abuse children, but telling your co-abuser a bank’s secrets will get even an ex-Prince arrested. Got it. I mean yeah, good that Andrew is facing justice, but it’s not for the truly heinous crimes.
* it is absolutely NOT fine nor dandy
“is there a technology that the left is excited about?”
Have you SEEN what vibrators can do now???
New on the blog: Wanna get intense? Zumio may have been the fad a few years ago, but it turns out the Lovense Hyphy is — for me, at least — significantly more comfortable to use and a lot more reliable at taking me to O-town. 😁
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Nah, it’s past the statute of limitations. 😉
Whoa, is Satisfyer FINALLY doing something with their Fun Factory assets they bought out???? It seemed like they were just killing the brand despite their claims to the contrary. I still haven’t heard anything about North America distribution, but maybe someday? 🤞
www.ean-online.com/distribution...
"The judge found that simply operating a website accessible in Kansas – even one that Kansas residents could view – is not enough to establish liability."
I hope to see a lot more of this.
Oh hey, this is fantastic news! There are plenty of people who would be willing to take STI prevention more seriously if it were more convenient. (HIV is not the only STI, obviously, but it’s the one with the most significant lifelong consequences.)
www.cbc.ca/news/health/...
Reposting to add: limits are saving you time and making it easier for you, safewords are protecting you from dealing with consequences you don't want.
Indeed. There are appropriate levels of depression relative to The Shit Going On®, and then there’s whatever MY brain does sans meds. There’s zero way I could be there for the people most important to me without. ❤️
I’m glad you seem to be seeing the results you need. 🙂
Oh hey, it’s been a while… life has been busy in some not-so-great ways and I’ve been feeling burnt out. Not to mention all the more-awful-than-normal going on in the world lately. But masturbation is self-care for many of us, and I’m finally back with a fresh toy review!
t4toy.com/reviews/love...
Oh hey, it’s been a while… life has been busy in some not-so-great ways and I’ve been feeling burnt out. Not to mention all the more-awful-than-normal going on in the world lately. But masturbation is self-care for many of us, and I’m finally back with a fresh toy review!
t4toy.com/reviews/love...
*Innocent whistle*
US: a.co/d/16xqn0O
CAN: a.co/d/6k5GWO0
UK: amzn.eu/d/0fhnNEs
Too cold to masturbate tonight? 🥶
There’s no rule against cozying up in PJs and wearing a wearable to bed! 😏
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3/3 Oh, and I’d just gotten home and was drinking a room-temperature 7-Up that I wished was colder when I bought it at the convenience store on the way home, but that part seems much less relevant. 😅 Why can I remember the least interesting parts the most clearly?!?!
2/3 There was also an Authenticity sticker on the box advising that it had been verified by some guy (whose name eludes me) on December 37th, 2025. (No typo.) So I was going to tell the company that they *really* ought to give their employees time off around the holidays, not invent a new work week.
1/3 Desperately trying (yet failing 😭) to remember more of the dream I just woke up from. I received a box of sex toys to review and one was a vibrator with the most adorable cartoon kitten face on one end. It was named M.E.O.W.C.A.T., I can’t remember what it stood for except the T was Tactical.
When medical forms ask my sex assigned at birth but don’t in any way also ask for my _actual_ sex or gender, I just lie. 🤷♀️
I’m out and loud, I’ll absolutely tell you I’m trans but I will NOT misgender myself. 🖕
Evergreen advice.
Oops, my bad. 🙂
