I left it alone because it was a question that had too many nuances for me. I couldn’t commit to a set answer because… it literally depends.

That’s where the disconnect happens. It’s not about attraction, it’s about alignment. And if the life experience doesn’t meet, the relationship ends up carrying more tension than it does peace.

An age gap isn’t just a number, it’s a difference in lived experience. One person has already been shaped by seasons the other hasn’t even entered yet. The way they think, move, love, and make decisions comes from completely different levels of exposure and accountability.

“Tahj disciple” nearly had me in the way to the upper room 😂

I found this to be relatable. And although the path outlined here is slightly different from mine, the conclusion from the journey is very similar.

The INTERCONNECTION!!!! 🗣️

That was deep. I’ve been dodging the story to give it a few days (because folks love to communicate speculation as pure fact). It’s more horrid than I originally thought.

This is a good take. righ-wing bullshit creates narratives of women and children as property to be disposed of as a man wishes.

That shit is what I actively push against and have been for years. Misogyny is easily spotted when you tune your antenna for it.

Self-described ‘Super Mayor’ can continue her Fulton County candidacy Tiffany Henyard is running as a Republican for Marvin Arrington’s district 5 seat in a heavily blue county.

Welp, let’s see how this goes 😂.

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A perfect description if my life 😂

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Oh, she absolutely misplaced her mind or left it in her pocka book or something!

Lawd, not phase two cussing 😂

To paraphrase a colloquial within my home community:

Jody done got your money and gone.

Lmfao what made yall think it was even going in yalls pockets 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Oh, that’s 10x worse 😵

You should be able to. Even if you have to do NDAs.

And I’m pretty sure you know this, but be weary: Many folks will come to you just to say they had you because of your societal status. And some will be extra angry that they couldn’t knock on the door 🚪 ✊🏽

Thank you. I’m doing pretty good 😊 🤎

Yikes lol.

Some doctors are just… 🤦🏽‍♂️

From head to toe, from tip to bow 😂

Baby, when he finds out he gotta put up all the receipts, he’ll probably withdraw suit quickly, and I’d be surprised otherwise 😂

I saw nothing. Don’t know what you’re talking about lol 🫣

This was wild to read.

“Aht aht! Can’t have sex in a space you pay to live!”

So much for privacy laws.

Not directly. Just from being a product of the infamous “DL” era. It’s similar in that it plays on being made/expected to feel shame about having sex, especially casually.

And more likely, some folks are doing real dirt anyway vs. trying to not to legitimately not have people in their business.

I FORGOT ABOUT THIS

Like Mary girl you know what’s NOT funny?? THIS. 😂

Her track record is indeed impeccable lol *end sarcasm*

Ha. Breathing is good lol. Glad you’re doing ok, though 😊

Morning! Thought about you this weekend because I haven’t seen you in a moment of time lol.