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Posts by AJ Oberlender

Being far from home just makes the story hit harder: wandering, waiting, wondering… and still showing up with gratitude.

Wishing you a Chag Sameach full of meaning, miracles, and maybe a few uninterrupted bites.

Next year in Jerusalem. This year, exactly where I need to be.

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Passover reminds us that freedom isn’t always flashy—it’s in the questions we ask, the patience we practice, and the crumbs we’ll be finding in the couch cushions until Shavuot.

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Because one day, they won’t want bedtime snuggles. And I’ll wonder where the time went.

#WorkLifeBalance #GirlDad #FamilyFirst

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The difference? I work somewhere that values work-life balance. Remote days mean no Miami traffic & being home for bedtime—even if I worked a little later than planned.

Tonight, Diana—who’s usually all about mommy—wanted to cuddle with me and Yael. A rare moment I don’t take for granted.

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ā€œIt’s just the beginning, middle, or end of the quarter.ā€

That’s what we used to joke about my dad always working. I swore I wouldn’t be like that.

And yet in the ultimate ā€œCats in the Cradleā€ reversal, here I am—a full-fledged workaholic.

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Ferris Bueller had it right: ā€œLife moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.ā€

I’m grateful for a company that encourages that. Today, I made sure to stop. And I’m really, really glad I did.

#Fatherhood #Parenting #LifeMovesFast

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But then came the moment that made it all worth it. When Yael walked through the door, I asked how her day was, and she said: ā€œYou made it great, because you surprised me.ā€

And yeah, I got a little teary-eyed. These little moments? They’re what it’s all about.

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Took the day off for Yael’s book fair. She had a great time (and yes, she completely finessed me into buying more books than I planned). After running errands and handling a little work chaos, I made it home just in time for the girls to get back.

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4/4 But as much as I wanted to believe it, I wasn’t convinced myself. Because I know better. Because I’ve seen what real monsters do.

And no child—mine, yours, or any child in Israel or anywhere else—should ever have to live in fear of them.

Am Yisrael Chai.
#BringThemHomeNow

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3/4 I know she meant something imaginary, but my mind went somewhere darker. I couldn’t help but picture real-life monsters. The kind that don’t just haunt dreams—they destroy lives.

I hugged her and told her monsters are more like Mike Wazowski—they learned that laughter is better than screams.

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2/4 She woke us up at 5 a.m. after a nightmare. We pulled her into our bed, and surprisingly, she fell right back to sleep. That almost never happens.

In the morning, we asked what her bad dream was about. She said, ā€œGreen monsters were hitting me.ā€

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1/4 We don’t talk about the conflict around our daughters. We don’t watch the news in the house. We try to shield them from the heaviness of the world.

But this morning, my almost four-year-old reminded me that some things find their way in, no matter what we do.
#BringThemHomeNow

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3/3 I don’t just practice Judaism; I live it. It’s not a box I check. It’s not a cultural label. It’s the way I exist in this world. It’s how I raise my two daughters. And no level of hate will ever erase that or get me to change who I am.

#BringThemHomeNow #EndJewHatred #RaisingProudJews

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2/3 And yet, I’m living in a time where some people think that’s justified. Where antisemitism is somehow excusable or ā€œcomplicated.ā€ It’s not. It’s hate, plain and simple. And it’s growing. But here’s what isn’t changing—who I am.

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1/3 This weekend, every time my daughter cried out for her mama, it shook me in a way I wasn’t prepared for. Because there are children in Israel who will never again be held by their parents. Parents who will never again tuck their babies into bed. Their lives were taken simply for being Jewish.

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2/2 The second I hung up, I broke down at my mom’s house. Then, I picked up my girls from school, took them to see their great-grandparents, and we went to Shabbat services. I hugged them a little tighter than usual. No parent should have to endure what Yarden Bibas is going through. Ever.

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1/2 Today was brutal. The news about the Bibas children broke me. My boss saw I was barely hanging on and told me to leave for the day, to go be with my family. But I had one last customer call scheduled—someone I truly adore—so I pushed through, holding it together just long enough.

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The Art of the Rebrand: How Fresca and Manischewitz Nailed It Fresca and Manischewitz prove that great rebrands blend nostalgia with modern appeal. Discover how these iconic brands updated their image while staying true to their roots.

Rebrands can make or break a brand’s future. Fresca and Manischewitz showed us how to do it right—leaning into nostalgia while staying fresh. šŸ”„

Check out how they nailed it: ajoberlender.com/blog/the-art...

#Branding #Marketing #Rebranding

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Reflections on the Holocaust and Rising Antisemitism as a Father A personal reflection on International Holocaust Remembrance Day: rising antisemitism post-October 7th, my Tia’s Holocaust survival story, and the responsibility to remember for my children’s future.

Today is #HolocaustRemembranceDay. I reflect on my Tia Aviva’s survival in hiding, my journey to Auschwitz at 17, and raising two Jewish daughters in a world still grappling with hate. ā€œNever Againā€ is a mission we all carry.

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Why the NBA Has Lost Its Edge: A Fan’s Brutally Honest Take The NBA isn’t struggling because it’s ā€œtoo woke.ā€ The real issues? Predictable gameplay, accessibility hurdles, and the loss of old-school rivalries. Here’s how the league can fix itself.

Does anyone else think the NBA’s lost its spark? šŸ€ For me, it’s not ā€œwokenessā€ but the gameplay—soft fouls, too many threes, and good luck trying to watch a game live. šŸ˜…

Am I the only one who misses the rivalries and grit?šŸ‘‡ www.ajoberlender.com/blog/why-the... #NBA #BasketballTalk

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93 Years of Wisdom: Lessons from My Grandmother, Buba Luba Discover the inspiring story of my grandmother, Buba Luba, as we celebrate her 93rd birthday. From her journey as an immigrant to her lessons on forgiveness, family, and resilience, her wisdom continu...

93 years. That’s how long my incredible grandmother, Buba Luba, has been inspiring us with her resilience, love, and wisdom. From Uruguay to the U.S., she taught me lessons I’ll carry forever. Forgiveness, lifelong learning, and family first. Read her story: www.ajoberlender.com/blog/celebra...

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What I Learned About Strategy from Fantasy Football Fantasy football is more than just a game—it’s a masterclass in leadership and strategy. In this post, I explore how managing a fantasy roster taught me lessons in decision-making, adaptability, and c...

Done with the holidays & my Chanukah posts, I’m back—talking fantasy football & leadership. šŸˆšŸ‘” This post was written before last week’s brutal fantasy loss, but the lessons still hold: strategy, guts, & adaptability win in life & business. Check it out: www.ajoberlender.com/blog/what-i-...

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The Eighth Night – Illuminating What Truly Matters This eighth and final night of Chanukah, I reflect on a week of candles lit across five locations, family moments that felt like miracles, and the timeless lessons from my parents’ first menorah. Chag...

Tonight, as we light the eighth and final candle of Chanukah, I’m reminded: it’s not where you light the menorah, but who you light it with. Family, love, and timeless tradition shine brightest. šŸ•Ž #Chanukah #Family
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From Oil to Inspiration: Carrying Chanukkah’s Light All Year Discover how the timeless lessons of Chanukkah—resilience, community, and finding light in darkness—can guide and inspire you all year long. Keep the flame alive beyond the eight days!

On this 7th night of Chanukkah, let’s remember: the menorah’s light isn’t just for the holiday. šŸ•ÆļøāœØ It’s a lesson in resilience, small miracles, and showing up for others. Carry this inspiration all year. Read how: www.ajoberlender.com/blog/from-oi...
#Chanukkah #Inspiration #JewishPride

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Day 4: Modern Miracle (www.ajoberlender.com/blog/chanuka...)
Day 5: Finding Light in the Grind (www.ajoberlender.com/blog/chanuka...)

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šŸ•Ž Previous posts:
Day 1: Lighting the Way (www.ajoberlender.com/blog/day-1-l...)
Day 2: Why Every Business Needs a Shamash (www.ajoberlender.com/blog/why-eve...)
Day 3: The Chanukah Marketing Lesson (www.ajoberlender.com/blog/the-cha...)

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Life Lessons from a Dreidel: Wins, Losses, and Spins On the sixth night of Chanukah, discover how the dreidel teaches us about life’s twists and turns. From work wins to Marlins heartbreaks, every spin has a lesson!

Night 6 of #Chanukah, post 6 of my series! šŸ•Ž Tonight, we spin the dreidel šŸŽÆ and explore its life lessons: wins, losses & surprises. From the Marlins’ highs (World Series!) to lows (fire sales 😭), the dreidel says it all.

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#LifeLessons #MiamiSports #DreidelWisdom

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Finding Light in the Darkness of the Daily Grind Discover the inspiring lesson of Chanukah: how small victories in the daily grind can lead to big successes. Embrace resilience, celebrate progress, and find your light in the darkest moments. šŸ•Ž

Life’s a grind—hustle, deadlines, toddlers. But Chanukah reminds us: small wins spark big miracles. Every flame matters. Keep showing up, keep shining. šŸ•Ž #Chanukah #SmallWins #Resilience
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Chanukah, Balagan, and the Missing Dress: A Modern Miracle A missing dress, a chaotic family morning, and a 4th-night Chanukah miracle—discover how the joy of balagan brought light and laughter to our holiday celebration.

Life’s chaotic, just like my family. From a missing wedding dress at the gate to a classic Kuba house balagan, the last couple of days leading up to the 4th night of Chanukah was peak chaos. But isn’t that where the best stories come from? Check it out: www.ajoberlender.com/blog/chanuka...

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How to Keep Your Audience Engaged for 8 Straight Days Discover 5 powerful marketing lessons inspired by Chanukah! Learn how brands can build trust, spark surprise, and foster community to keep audiences engaged—just like the holiday keeps us hooked for 8...

It’s the 3rd night of Chanukah šŸ•Žā€”a holiday that’s basically a marketing masterclass.

From tradition to surprise, here are 5 lessons brands can learn to keep their audience hooked (just like we are for 8 nights):
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