If you ever end up driving through my neck of the woods..... ;)

I love this still gets referenced years later.

I’m sure many have improved upon it since, but I’m glad it’s been a base starting point for many. ❤️

Finally! A positive comment (or at least one I’m going to take positively) about my mustache! So many people close to me in life absolutely hate it lol.

Merry Christmas, Fets and Kinkies. 😘😉

Me!

Late to posting it, but somebody got an end of Locktober mummification.

Need. 🥵😢😮‍💨

Hmmm. Who's coming over and doing this for me?

I'm so boring and reclusive in terms of kink the last few years, and the way I play is too soft compared to content being shared by others.

Therefore, I'm always flattered when notable kinksters and big personalities follow me, esp. if they say 'Hi' or strike a conversation. Warm fuzzies for sure.

My outfit for my birthday party was, if I do say so myself, on point for my personality. 😉

Unfortunately, I’ve encountered it in real life. Two of my SA incidents were from people who justified it because of their adherence to the “BDSM Gospel” of strict dichotomies and hierarchies. I think which area of the “market” you operate in increases your chances of encountering it.

In my experience - Everybody wants to rely on the “BDSM is temporary fantasy” bit, but after being inundated in the culture for like 20 years now, I have encountered a disturbingly high amount of people who treat it with the zealotry of a radical religion.

Hot take: I fail to see the difference between Andrew Tate Man-o-sphere content, and an awful lot of BDSM “This is how a master and slave should be” content.

🤷🏻‍♂️☕️

Pillion: Here’s your first look at Alexander Skarsgård’s “kinky” gay romance The first photo has been released from Alexander Skarsgård’s gay drama Pillion, in which he plays the dom to Harry Melling’s sub.

I hope this movie is good, because if it is, it sounds like it’ll make the rounds in the community.

Someone has been locked for 7 weeks now, so I suppooooooose some pressure should be let out……

If there's no video of this, pretty pretty please put it on the wishlist to take some of this combo again in the future. 😍🥵

Someone gets a valentines nap while I take care of some things.

I’m making a decision to pull pictures and videos down from sites I’m on where it’s XXX content and there’s a clear shot of my face in it.

I see a future where it may be used against me. And it may be too late to take down and the damage already done, but at least I can stop it from getting worse.

I love this. I now long for an accompanying video so that the creaking can complete the experience. ;)

I have so many notifications and I haven’t posted shit.

Wig.

Happy Saturday.

Two of my 4 rape and SA experiences were because the “Dom” ignored my safe words/safe signals, and saw themselves as the one with the final say in things.

That’s not how it goes.

I forget this is here. Oops.

Huh. Glad that Bluesky lets you upload directly from the ‘hidden gallery’. Anyway here’s the profile pic in better presentation. ;)