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Posts by Hellie

i feel like i'm sitting Shiva for myself

9 months ago 3 0 0 1

struggling with shutdown. the past month has tremendously overwhelmed me. doing my best not to lose communication, but i feel myself fading away more.

i don't know how to navigate becoming higher and higher support needs without any access to more support and only increasing responsibilities.

9 months ago 1 0 1 0

So here’s the thing.

Rest is good. It’s vital, whether you’re chronically ill or not.

But when you’re chronically ill, it’s really goddamned annoying. Like oh, thank you, body, guess I’ll just lie here and think about all the shit I was supposed to do but can’t because you threw a shit fit.

9 months ago 499 92 17 6

It's as cute as it sounds!

9 months ago 4 3 1 0
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Wild Faith Esquire Best Nonfiction Books of 2024The acclaimed author of Culture Warlords investigates the rise of the Christian Right over the last half-century that la...

Exhausted how many times I have to say this but if you want to understand the mindset of these people, who are in control of the entire American government, you need to read Wild Faith by @swordsjew.bsky.social (which I fact checked).

10 months ago 629 144 4 10

It's vital that Falco stay housed, especially due to this upcoming heat wave.

Xey are still in need of $635 for rent due tomorrow morning.
Please contribute any amount you're able and spread the word.

#MA #HelpSky 💸💕 #EmergencyMutualAid #Urgent #HelpFolksLive2025 #TransCrowdFund #FundSky #Disabled

10 months ago 2 2 1 0

I get that everyone’s instinct is to joke we should just bring on the rapture and get rid of these people but you should know the only way the rapture happens is if all the world’s Jews go to Jerusalem and drop dead so they can climb over our corpses on the way to heaven. So maybe not so funny? 😬

10 months ago 504 128 12 4
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I do hope you get some good rest, friend. It's been nice chatting with you :) I am here for moral support whenever you may need

10 months ago 1 0 0 0

Very neat and informative tips! Will try soon and report back. If my scalp/hair type manages well with it, this could be a game changer for me :)

10 months ago 1 0 1 0

Ooo, interesting. Is there a rice you've found to work best? Short or long grain white, jasmine, brown, etc? Does the type even matter in your experience?

10 months ago 1 0 1 0

It's vital that Falco stay housed, especially due to this upcoming heat wave.

Xey are still in need of $635 for rent due tomorrow morning. Please contribute any amount you're able and spread the word.

#MA #HelpSky 💸💕 #EmergencyMutualAid #Urgent #HelpFolksLive2025 #TransCrowdFund #FundSky #Disabled

10 months ago 2 2 0 0

Much appreciate the suggestion! I've heard of rice water washes but have been hesitant due to concern of not doing it right and being sticky (autistically cannot handle sticky). I will give your instructions a shot for sure tho, now that I have liquid shampoo to unsticky if need be lol

10 months ago 1 0 1 0
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The Ultimate List of Coconut Derivatives in Skin Care Identify coconut derivatives that could cause an allergic reaction with this ultimate list of coconut derivatives in skin care.

A list of derivatives found in skincare, as a glimpse of what I mean by miles long.

This year at age 27, I finally found a liquid shampoo and conditioner that is 100% safe for me. It's been a life of castile soap and apple cider vinegar rinses before now. It's pricey at $50, though, so I ration it.

10 months ago 1 0 1 0

Food is an obvious issue, but even disinfect wipes or car fresheners. Most things that the public use in their daily lives could send me into allergen overload and potential anaphylaxis.
The FDA recently removed coconut from allergy lists, too, so everything is even more difficult and expensive.

10 months ago 2 0 1 0

It's a complex one, for sure. I am not allergic to avocados or bananas, but I am allergic to latex because of the coconut derivatives. The list of coconut derivatives is miles long, almost not an exaggeration.
Everything from personal hygiene, medications, doormats, even the stuffing in mattresses.

10 months ago 1 0 1 0
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As someone with a near life-long workaholic problem, it's a real issue for me. If I could be working, I would be! I used to hold three jobs at once, but the jobs that used to be accessible no longer are.

I wish this wasn't the case for so many of us left behind in the mass disabling event.

10 months ago 1 1 0 0

Deeply felt. I rely solely on my partner after physically and cognitively declining from covid, doing my best to live as minimally as possible because I know how difficult it is to be a caretaker. My coconut allergy has increased in severity as well, so being in public, even masked, isn't feasible.

10 months ago 1 0 2 0

After searching for the amount of people I needed, who I knew would live up to the task, I have created the "VTubers for Mutual Aid" Starter Pack.

A simple pledge to spend time daily to find and help someone, and make your community safe for Mutual Aid.

Mutual Aid is Anti-Fascist Action!

10 months ago 50 35 1 5

The necklace combined with the button of the skirt tie this together so elegantly! Excellent accesorizing :)

10 months ago 1 0 0 0

u gotta compliment ur friends. i understand the impulse to stop urself from being a reply guy, but i promise it's not cringe, commenting on ur friends stuff and giving specific compliments about aspects u liked is the kind of thing that can make a person's whole day

1 year ago 6918 3396 52 114

No one should go without food or water for any amount of time, but it's especially detrimental to disabled folx. Heat is so hard on the heart.

I empathize so deeply with the fear of the unknown you must be experiencing right now. My words are little consolation, but you are cared about and wanted🩵🩷

10 months ago 1 0 1 0

I know, that's been at the forefront of my mind these past few days with the heat waves incoming 😟 it's already 105° here and I'm so worried about you.

10 months ago 1 0 1 0
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I'm also allergic to sunscreen! Mine is due to being allergic to coconut, which is in everything.
I have lupus so being outdoors during the day is a non-option at this point, I've always said I don't burn, I boil lol

10 months ago 1 0 0 0

Heard and felt.
I used to always be cold and still mostly am, but perimenopause and POTS has changed that this year. Even when I'm cold tho, hyperhydrosis causes me to sweat constantly so in heat I dehydrate even quicker.

10 months ago 1 0 2 0

i really just want all of my pals to be safe and to feel wanted and loved

10 months ago 0 0 0 0

It's vital that Falco stay housed, especially due to this upcoming heat wave.

Xey are still in need of $635 for rent due tomorrow morning.
Please contribute any amount you're able and spread the word.

#MA #HelpSky 💸💕 #EmergencyMutualAid #Urgent #HelpFolksLive2025 #TransCrowdFund #FundSky #Disabled

10 months ago 2 2 1 0

🚨🚨🚨 #Urgent 🚨🚨🚨

Falco needs $635 by 11AM tomorrow!!
They cannot survive unhoused with their disabilities. Each week the hotel gives him more time, the less likely the manager will allow it, so it's vitally important that this need is met.

#MA #HelpSky 💸💕 #Emergency #TransCrowdFund #PleaseShare

10 months ago 2 2 0 0

UPDATE: Sibling was approved for a housing loan, and one of bio mom's friends saw what she was doing and shored up the rest needed for my sibling to make the down payment. Keys have been acquired! Still in #Urgent need of electric hookup, food, fuel, and $750 rent again on the 1st.

#MA #HelpSky 💸💕

10 months ago 1 2 0 0

Falco needs survival funds by 11 Sunday morning. If you're able, please support them, even if by just spreading the word.

#MA #HelpSky #FundSky 💸💕 #Urgent #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdFund #CrowdFund ##HelpFolksLive2025 #QueerArtist #PrideMonth

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