ur gonna take my phone and not fucking just kill me already?

i would be the worst person to mug because i’d be kind of mad if you didn’t escalate it to homicide

i play siblings or dating with astarion ships all the time

LMFAOOOOO SO TRUE

i joke about being a kinkshamer but i have had the privilege of working with and knowing many wonderful people who are involved in that world and i think they’d be very insulted by that implication that if their kinks are left unsatisfied then they’re at risk of committing nonconsensual violence

the issue with sexual violence is most of these men do not view what they’re doing as violent or wrong. and framing sexual violence as a result of unsatisfied rape kinks is just so… uneducated and insulting that i can’t believe this man has a degree.

the therapyjeff shit is really driving me insane… like most suicide crisis line workers aren’t competent but you want there to be a hotline for if you have an urge to commit sexual violence?

like on your fucking therapy account bro? get a fandom account like a normal person or some shit… a DIARY even

i genuinely have no idea. i took ethics and clinical practice very seriously but i cannot say the same for most of my classmates in graduate school. i didn’t major in psych in undergrad though. i was political science pre-law and sociology, so i think i came in with very different perspectives.

they give these degrees to anyone ig

male therapist with the major tiktok following who posted shitty sexual violence takes yesterday also caught posting his preferred handjob techniques on his PROFESSIONAL account (on threads)

Afternoon Encounters 🌴

of course 🫡 happy to help!

GENERALLY this is not as bad outside of inpatient. inpatient there’s no discernment in the selection process. we have a little more control outside of hospital settings LOL

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us

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i post like you’re all sitting next to me forced to listen

how people think i’m posting when im on a tangent vs how im actually posting on a tangent

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anyway i’m stoned so im subjecting everyone to my thoughts

“we can care about more than one thing” obviously but this is clearly some form of recreational rage like you’re not kiki’ing about it… ur like actually pissing urself off all day

also the dogpiling is lowkey crazy. why are you asking me to be on the frontlines over interpersonal beef? that one tyler the creator tweet evergreen

like even if i agree with some points being made, im just like is this really a hill to die on? this is what you’re most passionate about?

the discover page here is not for the weak

it just makes my brain melt getting off work, having to engage with tangible real systemic oppression all day, and then seeing someone crash the fuck out over like… “you guys are puritanical fascists for not leaving kudos on my ao3 magnum opus halsin x grove boar omegaverse fic” or some shit

we call those enablers offline like we should do the same online

it reminds me of being in da psychward, sitting in group therapy surrounded by other people who have diagnoses different from my own, as well as wildly different levels of functioning, and just being forced to listen to someone get their psychotic delusions validated by an unqualified employee

i need you to know some people have war in their countries

i think i discovered the reason fandom pissed me off was that a lot of people think they’re much smarter than they really are and then have a bunch of dumbasses telling them “exactlyyyy”

like dudes who have healthy bdsm based relationships would not be in these chats. that’s a moot fucking point bro. sexual violence is not an issue of people not having “healthy outlets for their kinks.” bitch…

i took my adhd medication i’m cranky

like fantasies and kink don’t exist in a vacuum so yes i will be critical of men especially who weaponize what makes their dick hard as some kind of inherent part of their identity so you can never criticize them or their behavior