Haha no I doubt that will happen. He probably gets along better with my mom than I do. I think he just needs manual labor to get his mind off his super stressful job.

I should have just let him go mow the lawn when he asked. Apparently he just needed anything besides hanging out with the toddler.

I should add. The room his current office setup is in (the one I'm supposed to move into) is also the guest room that my mom is staying in. But like his work shit is everywhere so I cant even put sheets on the bed. Seriously what are men.

And now hes bitching about it.

Of course now he says its bad time to do this. You wanna know why? I cant move my office shit out because he hasnt moved his office shit and refuses to let me move into the basement. There is an order of operations that needs to be followed and he started with step 3. Men.

James' new bed frame was delivered like 2 weeks ago and husband decided that today, 30 minutes before bedtime, the day before my mom gets here, was a good time for him to put ot together...

I hope Nana and Gramma are ready for this.

Obviously people do it all the time, but I was hoping to keep James in some sort of routine while I'm in the newborn trenches.

Found out today that my sitter will be out of town for like 3 weeks in July. I'm anticipating having this baby the firstish week of July. 🫠

Now that we have two cars, how long will the tank of gas i got yesterday last? The car said I had 338 miles until I need to refill. The furthest i need to drive for the foreseeable future is my OB 4 miles away.

Dammit I thought it was the downstairs one but its the kitchen one, so I dont even have tje floor the muffle the chirp. This man better get home sooner rather than later

This is also a downside to an open floorplan home. I cannot put a lot of doors in between me and the chirp.

In this household, that is a husband job.

A smoke detector just started to chirp and my husband is not home.

I love the Pitt. Im liking friend and neighbors season 2, but theres only a few episodes oit right now

My neice who is a little older than Leo says some variation of "get out of my neighborhood you ugly cyber truck" when she sees one.

Had a call about divvying up my main tasks while I'm out on leave and one of the guys on the call in Canada couldn't understand why we weren't hiring a consultant for my leave. We had to remind him that our american mat leave is only 12 weeks. For our canadian counterpart, its 12-18m 😭

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The new car only takes premium gas, which is currently $5.76/g here 🥲

He also admitted that it was closer to an impulse buy than it was to a thoughtfully planned purchase. Overall it was good to hear him say the things he said and he did bring up that they need to not be empty words.

He came home, we argued, he had a call, and then he came in an apologized and took responsibility with how shitty things have been lately and how so much has fallen on me due to his work.

I bought myself a new smart watch. Mine is 6 years old and is dying quickly. Its not a new car, but its something.

At the same time, it's whatever. I dont get enjoyment out of driving like he does. But even his dad is like you aren't in a stage of life where you get a fun car.

Which is an upgrade of the car we traded in for the family car. Which i let him have a bigger say in since he has to drive more than I do. So now "my" car isnt even the one I wanted. Just salty all around.

We knew we needed one by this summer. With two kids and my husband needing to be on site 2 days a week at a job site an hour away. And we decided it doesnt need to be another family car. But he didnt really even look at other options besides the car hes been wanting for years.

a little boy in a blue shirt is talking to a woman in a parking lot . ALT: a little boy in a blue shirt is talking to a woman in a parking lot .

Cant wait to throw a newborn into the mix in a couple months!

I'm venting and emotional and physically uncomfortable. And just tired.

Also he kind of did it without me. Which is deeply frustrating. We went from saying maybe we'll all go to a dealership this weekend to him going to two on his way home from work and buying a car.

Turns out I'm mad that my husband basically impulse bought a new car. It shifts more of the childcare onto me, which is already disproportionately on me because of his job.