Grooming is the most devastating form of abuse in the way that there is reams and reams of evidence of you saying this person is so wonderful.
Posts by Aruvi π³οΈββ§οΈ
Love that I've made this account and had neglected to tell my abuser so I can talk here safely now.
"Bring Me to Life" by Evanescence as featured in Bandai Namco's Elden Ring Nightreign pre order trailer (2025)
Oh no it's a very common response to wanting to be adopted by her
Life bucket list update: did my estrogen shot to a small crowd while Susan Stryker's 'my words to Victor Frankenstein' plays in the background
Oh sis if only I could explain to you the phenomenon that is tamil actor Abbas...
"I'm alive!" said Gatsby, roaring past on a speedboat. He'd faked his own death and gotten away with everything. That's why they called him the Great Gatsby. "Out of the way, current!" he yelled at the water. "This speedboat is bearing me ceaselessly into the future!"
Every time I read The Great Gatsby, the final paragraph brings me to tears. Breathtakingly powerful writing:
How yall feeling today lil trans ppl on my phone? Tell me something nice that happened to you this week
SUGGESTION - Brother, you should put me in front of a firing squad. I have no words for how I failed you.
A man goes up to a another man with an eyepatch and says "if you don't mind me asking, how did you lose your eye?" The eyepatch man thinks to himself and recalls the events. An earlier version of him in a thought bubble is on the floor in the with his knees hiked up above his head. His says "I'm gonna do it. I'm finally gonna suck my oen dick." He then sticks his dick in his eye and shotus "AUGGH! I missed!" He points to the first man and says "I do mind you asking."
BUT YOU PROMISED ME SHISH KEBAB SHSH KEBAB SATURDAY
SHISH KEBAB SATURDAY
HRT is weird man I now have complex thoughts and emotions about my body it's like up until now it was like *shrug* it's some body but now it's like aah!? my body!??!?
American dolls pls stop being dramatic and ask your elders how to get through tough times
khajit has wares if you have coin (selling @riverie.bsky.social prints at the state gallery of art, Hyderabad)
This has absolutely everything: youtu.be/jLyorEpfFxA?...
Underrated vasundhara das singing π€πΎ
Ajith π€πΎ
Wearing shirts as skirts π€πΎ
I was at this event where some psychiatrist was weighing in on "arts education" and speaking about how art helped her autistic patients express themselves and communicate. Ticked me off the way she described autism in a way that reinforced the patient-ness, the sorrowβ’ of the parentsβ’ and whatnot.
Stfu about "Dravidian stock" and what not. Brooo they spit pan parag broooo they're taking our jobs brooooo π it's just barely disguised contempt for the working class.
Love how deep procrastination is ingrained into Hyderabad's ethos, we have Monday morning traffic on Tuesday morning
No matter how you sugarcoat it a psychiatrist can never talk about autistic people in a way that doesn't dehumanize. It's simply impossible.
I'm rewatching a let's play of disco elysium and it's such a good satire on how to write something vaguely progressive without moving the ball a single inch
I don't have answers but it's a good question to ponder.
This ...thing... has persisted through all the ways in which I've changed over the years. The thing that comes closest to being a meaningful explanation is 'ADHD ppl have difficulty regulating emotions' but I don't live by such shit anymore, I'm not a 23yo trauma baby.
I've been on both sides of this. And very often I feel fully justified in going and asking someone how they could be so cruel as to live a life without me, and on the flip side I feel fully justified in asking "fuck did I do wrong?! have empathy for my busy life."
And if you're sitting and pining for them this feels insane. monstrous. how can life go on? how could they be so cruel? And they're like. munching on parathas and massaging tired shoulders from the workday.
Like if you hang out with them on Monday and then go back home, on Tuesday they have like. Two meetings at the office, a lunch date, finished a level on the video game in the evening, bantered with the gc, a full night's sleep.
one of the things that was really a huge struggle for the biggest part of my 20s - both on my part and the part of friends and lovers - is coming to terms with the fact that a person can live a full, occupied life without you.
Bro. Ok. It's been six months on hrt. Where the heck are these sweeping emotional changes and "I'm no longer attracted to women" vibes? Was everyone just lying or...?!
@riverie.bsky.social
i don't need to wear bindis when i can just wear their forehead kisses instead
I'm definitely t4t because i hate cis ppl some sisters are wild