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A post-Easter reflection for my fellow history and comparative mythology nerds:

You can’t reach your full erotic aliveness without going down there to meet what’s buried - and you often need help to come back. Even in our oldest resurrection myths, queerness and transness does underworld work the gods cannot.

Nautical Naughtiness Punished - Dreams of Spanking She’s uncovered his naughtiness and carousing ways, and her demands are simple - take a caning and get down on one knee...

CNs - punishment for infidelities by way of caning on the bare ⚓

A girl in every port sounds charming until you realise one of their aunts is keeping count. Jamie’s indiscretions have caught up with him, and Aunt Iceni has a very particular revenge in mind!

We rise together | Patreon Get more from Blake Becoming on Patreon

Visibility is scary, but still we rise together:

Sometimes the bravest thing we can do is start before we feel properly ready. Not perfectly or alone, but in community - supported, witnessed, and willing to do it messy so something real can begin.

2000 years before Jesus rose from the dead, a goddess did it first | Patreon Get more from Blake Becoming on Patreon

A post-Easter reflection for my fellow history and comparative mythology nerds:

For millennia, cultures seeking to understand desire have known that the erotic and the underworld are the same country. Our turn-ons come from the dark: the fantasies we can’t speak, the hungers we were taught to bury, and the parts of ourselves we forgot were there.

Nautical Naughtiness Punished - Dreams of Spanking She’s uncovered his naughtiness and carousing ways, and her demands are simple - take a caning and get down on one knee...

CNs - punishment for infidelities by way of caning on the bare ⚓

Matilda’s aunt has uncovered Jamie’s carousing ways, and her demands are simple: take a caning and get down on one knee, or she’ll never let him near her niece again.

Visibility is scary, but still we rise together:

Visibility is scary and perfectionism is seductive, but the hardest shift is from 0 to 1 - the moment you stop tinkering behind the scenes and actually let yourself be seen.

2000 years before Jesus rose from the dead, a goddess did it first | Patreon Get more from Blake Becoming on Patreon

A post-Easter reflection for my fellow history and comparative mythology nerds:

In one of our oldest surviving myths, the first deity to die and rise again on the third day wasn’t Christ but Inanna: goddess of love, war and sex. The descent begins with listening, and with opening your wisdom to what lies beneath.

Nautical Naughtiness Punished - Dreams of Spanking She’s uncovered his naughtiness and carousing ways, and her demands are simple - take a caning and get down on one knee...

CNs - punishment for infidelities by way of caning on the bare ⚓

Matilda enjoys Jamie’s caning so much that one cannot help but wonder: has there really been a little bit of Monica in this boy’s life, or is it all a convenient fiction?

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I remembered to make the chocolate soap, but I forgot to pack the kink toys 🧼

It’s hard to know what to hold onto and what to let go of when you’re in transition. Porn is still important to me - but more and more I’m being called towards work that helps people feel safe enough to meet the full glory of their erotic selves.

Cruel Correction: Part 3 - Dreams of Spanking The bull whacker is cruel, thin, firm, a little flexible, perfectly calibrated for a sharp whipping sting...

CNs - a Victorian M/f fantasy featuring bare-bottom whipping ⛓️

He calls it a ‘pizzle’. Ellen’s never seen one before, but she’s frightened long before it hits her bare backside.

I made a big mistake (and how I reacted surprised me) | Patreon Get more from Blake Becoming on Patreon

I remembered to make the chocolate soap, but I forgot to pack the kink toys 🧼

What fascinated me most about dropping the ball wasn’t the mistake itself, but this: I didn’t turn it into a story about my failing as a person. It was simply useful learning - with compassion for my team, compassion for myself, and a clearer sense of what needs to happen next.

Cruel Correction: Part 3 - Dreams of Spanking The bull whacker is cruel, thin, firm, a little flexible, perfectly calibrated for a sharp whipping sting...

CNs - a Victorian M/f fantasy featuring bare-bottom whipping ⛓️

Stripped, bound, and finally facing the punishment she has watched in dread since her arrival, Ellen learns what her new life truly demands.

I made a big mistake (and how I reacted surprised me) | Patreon Get more from Blake Becoming on Patreon

I remembered to make the chocolate soap, but I forgot to pack the kink toys 🧼

I remembered to make the chocolate soap, but I forgot to pack the kink toys. The whole incident became a very apt metaphor for transition: learning what to hold onto and what to hand over while you’re finding a new way of working.

Cruel Correction: Part 3 - Dreams of Spanking The bull whacker is cruel, thin, firm, a little flexible, perfectly calibrated for a sharp whipping sting...

CNs - a Victorian M/f fantasy featuring bare-bottom whipping ⛓️

Ellen’s time in the Governor’s house, while terrifying, has violated her mind more than her body - until now.

Permission to rest | Patreon Get more from Blake Becoming on Patreon

Plot twist: we all got COVID… 🦠

I used to think resilience meant pushing through exhaustion. Last week reminded me it can also look like slowing down, speaking gently, and trusting that nothing important will be lost if you rest. Healing shows up in the quiet ways we respond to stress.