Awwww I didn't even see this! It must have gotten lost in my notifications. Thank you so, so much! 💜

This breaks my heart and I am deeply ashamed of anyone who bullied Io this way. It should never have come to this and it's disgusting. You're allowed to feel how you do, but at that point, avoid someone if you don't like them and do NOT slander them. Io deserves so much better than this. Do better.

If you're actually that upset over metrics on a website... For real, go outside and touch grass. It's pathetic. It's fucking pathetic and if you're willing to try and bully someone out of a fandom because of numbers on a screen YOU ARE PATHETIC! Get a fucking life.

But come on! This is fanfiction. We are spending our free time writing about our favorite characters FOR FREE because we love it. There is ZERO reason to go after someone for that. Because...why? Because of fucking numbers? Hits? Kudos? Comments? Followers? This shit isn't rl currency, ffs!

My abuser crossed a line that finally made other people stand up for me and they left the fandom, but it still took me almost 7 years to finish that fic. I had to take several lengthy hiatuses. I kept coming back because *I* wanted to see it finished in the end. *I* loved it too much to abandon it.

I have always had a zero tolerance policy for fandom bullying. I myself was harassed pretty horrifically back in 2018 because at the time I was writing the most popular story for a specific ship by basically every metric on AO3. That experience made me understand the damage words can inflict.

you know who you are and you disgust me. please for the love of god get a life, and keep my girlfriend’s name out of your mouth. 🖕🏻

I'm so sorry that it didn't occur to me to think this year's LVLUP would trigger memories of that. Honestly, I've spent most of the last month writing for an old fandom because it's joyful & the first time in about a year where it hasn't felt like "work." I will always love and support you. 💜

Just in case this needs some form of validity (which it doesn't), the person in question slandered Iō to me personally. I don't know them and they didn't know I was close with Iō. We were just chatting and they brought Iō up out of nowhere. So, if anyone wants "proof," there it is.

Don’t do this to anyone else at this years LVLUP, please. Please, it is so cruel, it is so nasty on levels I cannot even fathom from this fandom & it’s why I’m not active anymore.

I don’t want anyone else to go through this, & I want to be free of this torment & go back to writing my fics.

Right? The only reason I hesitated on it was because I had a few hoodies/sweatshirts from them now and with that thicker screen printing it meant the designs down the sleeves made the sleeves feel weird. (To me anyway. Autism ftw lol) So now I'm excited and hoping that won't be a problem this time.

Fuck women's sizing. Obviously I have other reasons to prefer men's clothes at this point, but even before I fully realized my gender identity I was like, "What made up bullshit is this? Why do I have to be a twig to wear regular sixes??" Uuuugh!!!

I was looking at the size charts for the first time in ages because I've always been a Unisex M, but that was also when I had a 40 inch chest so I was trying to decide if that needed to change now 😅 Anyway! Point is, I noticed a M = a Ladies 2XL and I was just like:
(╯°□°）╯︵ ┻━┻

Also, just as a note, despite what the size chart says I always go by "Hot Topic rules" and size up for Sharkrobot's hoodies/sweatshirts and I would advise anyone to do the same (unless super tight clothes are thing, in which case go for it).

Got my V-Day hoodie from Sharkrobot and I honestly LOVE IT!!! The screen printing is so much thinner than what we got for the 2025 Pride hoodies, so it doesn't feel stiff at all. And it's so soft!!! Now I'm really happy I ended up pulling the trigger on the Year of the Horse one, too! 💜💜💜

Yesterday I had my 3 month post-op visit with my plastic surgeon and she was incredibly happy with how I've healed. Then she asked my opinion and I told her I was ecstatic with everything! So now I'm down to scar care and after that I'll be done. Done, done!

Mission De-Boobening is Complete! 🎉🏳️‍⚧️

Re: leaks

“It’s a good thing! It’s not behind a paywall so more fans can enjoy the art!”

I need to reality check you on this: if the project doesn’t make money then you’re not getting more of them. I’m no Paramount fan, but they’re the owner and investor of the IP. (

Satan help everyone if tomorrow is Day #3 of 6 hours straight of meetings. Because that meme? "This meeting could have been an email." That one. Let me tell you, it's a CURSE when no, it couldn't have been an email, and you actually have to pay full attention in Every. Single. One! 🫠

Oh I know! I'm glad we're at least getting something for Good Omens in the end. It really seemed like we wouldn't for a while there and I was just like, "Omg I just went through this with Our Flag Means Death. Can real life stop playing out the kill your gays trope for 5 seconds!?"

I had suspicions that there was not a lot of control in when and how it would get released, turns out it's true! I'm sadly not surprised that this was the best they could do with the circumstances of what the theatres are willing to negotiate on

Like with Iron Lung, we have to make noise about it!

Me: *Browsing Fics*


Fic Tag: Created Using Generative AI


Me: Fuck. That. 😠

Justice for Sallie May not getting a kimono look!
#helluvaboss #helluvabossfanart #salliemay @morganaignis.bsky.social

When all is said and done, let it be remembered that the ones that fought against the trans community hardest were a bunch of warmongering, sex trafficking, racist pedophiles.

Happy International Asexuality Day to any of my fellow ace mutuals and followers 🤗💜🤍🖤Wherever you fall under the ace umbrella, you are valid 🥹

(As an extra layer of funny, my mom is solely responsible for both my legal name AND my online name so...thanks, Mom! I'm being completely serious.)

So while having a more androgynous name would be nice, I just don't feel the need for it because I don't feel that hatred that I have for my full name. Besides, anyone I've met since 2014 who isn't a coworker pretty much calls me by my online name anyway 😅

It's funny to me that I don't really have any drive to change my name despite being ebny and having a very feminine name. I've thought about it, but the thing is I go by a short version and anytime someone full names me I have such a reaction of disgust that I don't have with the short version...

One of the strongest sources of support I got for my top surgery came from a trusted coworker who in turn revealed to me that as a cis woman she'd had a boob job. We were essentially having opposite surgeries, and yet she understood EXACTLY what I wanted and why in a way I never expected.

*sips coffee* she has risen…

Happy April Fools Day!

I fucked Chaz. Thank you for confirming I’m a lesbian, king 🦈