You can politely tell your autistic friends that they are doing something weird or obnoxious and they'll listen. Not a universal rule but like, have you tried talking to people instead of just shit talking them?
I used to be someone who would get defensive if someone told me I was making them or someone else uncomfortable due to my own insecurities. And guess what, that's completely on me to figure out. Now I've learned to accept constructive feedback whole-heartedly and it has made a world of a difference.
Also constructive feedback is super important for ANYONE, I think. If you feel that someone is making yourself or anyone else uncomfortable, it's okay to let them know that. We can't guard someone else's feelings based on how we'll think they'll react, because that's on them.
For real. Anyone on the spectrum including AuDHD or any neurodivergent individuals can be told that something is making you or others feel uncomfortable. Direct and honest communication is so rare nowadays. I mean, I'm working on this myself but it's honestly not as hard as it seems.
Thissssssss ^^^
I want for all time
to fill the spaces between
your fingers with mine
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Dayum 🔥 fire fit
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And yet, he's still here. And despite all the time that has passed, things feel like they never changed. 💜🖤💛
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Going through "old" VRC self portraits from several months ago and came across this.
I kinda dig it. 💜
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Custom avatar texture by: FableRed
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Maybe looking at the Pioneer FLX4 or something very similar btw
I could make $300 work but it's kind of a stretch and I would have to take more time to save up for it. Looking for a 2-channel deck for now.
LEMOOOOON 🍋 ✨
If anyone's got a beginner's DJ control deck for sale, let me know or send them my way. Please. ❤️ Budget is around $250.
Side note: My new hotel-quality pillows, sheets, pillow covers and duvet cover are waiting for me on my front porch. Nothing says "adulting" like being excited to go to sleep comfortably in brand new linens
I'm so excited and ready to see all my friens this weekend 💖 there's a whole itinerary of stuff to do and people to see, but I'll be sure to say hi and catch up with as many of y'all as I can! I'll be on blue most of the time I'm logged in. 🔵 Also please remind me to snap a picture of us together!
"Schwooz" 😏
But yes, I'm quite excited to be back and healthier than ever before 💖
Much love Foxx, thank you for your support 💖 I've missed you!!!
THANK YOOOUUUU 😭❤️ I'm very excited to see you sometime soon, hopefully!!
Honestly it's been a surprising amount of people who have been excited about my return. Many were concerned about my well-being, which I genuinely appreciate. I really needed to have more faith in my friends who have stuck it out for me this entire time. I adore them 💛
Also, I'll be starting up school again in the summer! Very excited to go back to college and study a passion I've found within my new job I started in December. Good things all around.
To those who haven't seen or talked to me in all this time, please feel free to request off me in VR. I'd love to chat and catch up with you. I've missed you all, and hope to see you all soon ❤️
I've also moved out of a toxic living environment and am in a much more loving and accepting space of living. Surrounding myself with people who truly love and care for me has been the exact change I needed to pivot forward on my journey of self-love and acceptance.
I've been hanging out with my IRL friends at least once a week, have rediscovered my social circles, and feel like I'm blooming into a much better version of myself. I'm taking better care of myself mentally and physically and an immense weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
I'm feeling so much better after taking the much-needed time away from the VR social space. I wasn't doing well IRL or in VR, so I decided to take a hiatus for an undetermined amount of time, which turned into 7 months of healing and finding myself again.
Hey everyone. It's been a hot minute since I've been on VR, but... I'm back.
Last week, I decided to step back into VR for the first time in 7 months. I've received a ton of love, concern and support from those who missed me. I'll explain a bit more about what I've been up to in a few replies.
Def need to drink way more water than I actually do (which is almost never, absolutely awful I know 😭) and lock in on a small fitness plan that I can eventually grow into something more rigorous as I gain strength.
No shit. I remember how good it felt to purge 95% of my belongings just to move back to my home state many years ago. Honestly I could try having that mindset (maybe not as hardcore) and take serious consideration of just how much stuff I actually need to hold onto.
