But…

I also know the difference between preferences, orientation, values, identity, and physical reality

because I'm not just human

I'm a grownup

I don't rule out people or situations that deviate from my known preferences

I've learned to be open to finding connection where I don't expect it and I love being pleasantly surprised

I don't judge or condemn anyone with different preferences

because they're human too

I always prefer a sense of easy self-possession

I always prefer "peer" or "side" dynamics to power exchange or other top/bottom norms

I always prefer healthy men with a little extra weight on them

I have other preferences

Again… because I'm human

I always prefer erect penises to soft

I always prefer untrimmed pubes to trimmed or shaved

I always prefer a sex partner who ultimately orgasms and ejaculates

I always prefer partners who respond to my touch, smile naturally, laugh after orgasm and exude natural, emotional warmth after sex

I love men, sexually, socially, and intellectually
and I respect and honor differences
but I'm not purely objective

I have innate and learned preferences

I love women too
though not sexually

I have my own story, my own perspectives that effect relationships and interactions

I'm human

Tonight at Rain City Jacks
The Underwear Event

Check-in from 7 to 8. All varieties of underwear welcome in the playspace tonight. Details at… www.raincityjacks.org/calendar-2/#...

All RCJ themes are optional.

I love my pubes and have let them grow out naturally for the past two years.

Six weeks ago, the surgeon shaved the top corner of my bush, just an inch and a half off one side of the pubic triangle.

I'm a bit shocked to see how slowly it grows in, maybe half an inch in six weeks.

The RCJ Underwear Event is this Tuesday, April 14 at 7:00!

Handy household tip: Many stains can be safely treated by simply soaking in cold water, and many grease spots will wash out by pre-treating with a dab of Dawn pre-wash. 🧼 www.raincityjacks.org/calendar-2/#...

My feed is super jizzy today

I’m allergic to

1) more = better
2) less = better
3) woo-woo

😍

So do I

Dongs are made to squirt

We 💙 every member of the Jacks. You guys make everything we do worth it. There is truly nothing like being part of a jack-off club community.

74 men joined us this past Sunday. We can't wait for the Underwear Event on 4/14!

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Masturbation is exponentially more fun when done together and IRL. This is why Rain City Jacks exists. Whatever else you have planned for this glorious Seattle Sunday, make RCJ your sweet spot at 1:00 this afternoon.

Seattle comes together at Rain City Jacks.

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I think of it more as working with myself rather than playing.

I don’t do holiday sex puns

NO

April at Rain City Jacks has a Sunday Bonerfest (tomorrow!) and our famous Underwear Event on the 14th. #Boners!

Sunday 4/5 @ 1 PM
Tuesday 4/14 @ 7 PM The Underwear Event!
Sunday 4/19 @ 1 PM

My open underwear drawer overflowing with nothing but white Bator Briefs from Bator Balm, illustrating that this is my everyday underwear, what you would see in my pants on any random day.

A fully erect penis and tight scrotum sticking through the fly of a pair of white Bator Briefs from Bator Balm. The man is ostensibly white and naked except for the briefs. A slight belly extends over the waist strap, mostly obscuring the Bator Balm logo. Man is wearing a simple wedding band and is on the older side, with a short-cropped gray beard just visible at the top of the photo.

I guess these have become my everyday underwear of choice #BatorBriefs from @batorbalm.bsky.social

How much to kiss the tighty-whities?

I haven't posted penis for over a month because I got a hip implant and while I'm healing wonderfully, I'm surprisingly self-conscious about

A) the scar, and
B) the little corner of shaved pubes

I'm the only one who gives a shit about either of these things

woof

The genuine mansex in my bsky feed is deeply inspiring and boner-inducing

I fucking hate AI slop and when my feed is free of it, I'm one happy penis bator

#FuckSlop #FuckAI

WOW

Wow brother

Healthy Friction Palm Springs: Room 50 Avalon Cabana
Newly remodeled 232 square ft. Cabana has a mid century vibe & a sexy view of the Avalon pool. Huge 8'x6' plate glass window is an exhibitionists dream. 16-20 April
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