New Episode on Non-Monogamy in kink
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Gifted Kid -> Perfectionist -> Burnout -> Praise Kink pipeline ✨
We need more language to describe the different flavors of pain. I’ve never met a masochist who gets off on having the stomach flu… Most of us are actually quite particular about the type and context in which we enjoy intense sensation. Not all pain is created equal!
Got any vocab suggestions?
Good s💋x rarely “just happens,” especially in LTRs.
Here are some ways to put some intention into this area of your life:
💋Plan something sensual & not overtly s💋xual.
💋Learn a new technique together.
💋Have s💋x at times or in places you don’t usually.
💋Write an erotic story for your partner.
Nurturance and eroticism contribute to satisfaction differently for monogamous and CNM people. Monogamous folks typically need both to be happy; CNM folks can be happy with one or the other, likely because they can get a missing need met by other partners. www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10....
Most folks dont understand that Kǐnk is not just about what you DO in the bedroom, it’s a community & culture w/traditions, shared language, ethos, etc. Come w/cultural humility & youll be welcomed w/open arms. Come w/ judgment & expectations, & youll be rejected faster than you can say spankmedaddy
Listen to the full episode wherever you get your podcasts!
