My favorite thing is helping people find their power in front of my camera during their boudoir session. I've had manyyyyy subs find out they are actually switches that way 😜

The difference between boudoir and a mirror selfie? Support. Direction. And me screaming "FUCCKKKK NOW THAT IS A BOOTY, GODDAMN" in the corner. 🫣📣

“What should I wear to my boudoir session?” Something that feels like a secret. Or a protest. Or both. 👀

Book a boudoir session right now & give a big fuck you to skinny culture at the same time 💁🏻‍♀️ Not when you lose weight. Not when you feel more worthy. You are worthy right. now.

Reminder: Boudoir is inherently political. Taking spicy selfies is political. Both are all about reclaiming your power and ownership over your body, and refusing to shrink or hate yourself.

If you feel too awkward to take a spicy photo, you’re not doing it wrong. You’re probably doing it right! That awkwardness is the space between old shame and new power.

Gentle reminder: You don’t have to earn the right to be seen. 🖤

You know that no one else ever has to see that spicy selfie, right? It can be just for you, tucked away for whenever you need a reminder that you are powerful, gorgeous, and worthy of admiration.

Submission is choosing to stay with your body. Even when the critic is loud. Even when you want to run. Even when it feels really vulnerable.

It's trusting in yourself. Showing yourself that you are worthy of love.

Take that spicy selfie, not for anyone else. For you.

Sometimes the sexiest thing you can do is stay. With your body. With the photo. With the version of you who needs care. What is it that's keeping you from staying with them?

The "awkward" selfie you never post? Still powerful. Still a reclamation. Still yours 🖤

If you’ve been hiding your body out of fear or shame, taking a spicy selfie is an act of rebellion.

That spicy selfie pose tutorial of mine that you saved agessss ago on TikTok, but you’re scared to try? The one that makes you feel way too much? Yeah, that’s the one. I dare you to try it today.

A spicy selfie a day keeps the shame spiral away (mostly) 😘

HOT HOT HOT 🔥

The lighting wasn’t perfect. The pose felt weird. But you took the photo anyway? That’s hot.

Genderfluid clients are my fave as a boudoir photographer because we get to do feminine, masculine, and gender-ambiguous posing all in one session and my creativity just skyrockettttsss 😍

Actually, my hyper femininity is NOT for the male gaze. It's for me & MY gaze. 💁🏻‍♀️

Journaling prompt: What is one thing that you struggle to love about your body, but want and feel ready to see differently? What is one small way that you can show love to that part of you today?

A boudoir client once told me that I shouldn't talk about my own struggles with my body because it would make clients not trust me. I think that's bullshit.

Why wouldn't you want a boudoir photographer who deeply, personally understands how delicate the relationship with your body can be?

Spicy photos taken from below eye level = dominant 😈

Spicy photos taken from above eye level = submissive 🥺👉🏻👈🏻

"What are you smiling about?"

Oh, I'm just thinking about how the Catholic Church across the hall from my queer & kink boudoir studio can absolutely hear me through the walls while I scream, "YESSS GRAB THAT BOOTY OMG SO FUCKING HOT" during my boudoir sessions 🤭💅🏻

When you're a spicy content creator, you spend a lot of time thinking about what other people like about your body.

I love photographing OF creators who booked their boudoir session *just* for themselves. I get to help them grow in their love for their own body.

It's a special kind of session ❤️

Wait did you know that I offer monthly boudoir/spicy photo session subscriptions for SWers, OF creators, and other spicy content creators? AND it's a fraction of the price of my regular sessions?! 🔥

If you're local to NH, MA, ME, or VT, let's chat! I have 4 spots left for these types of sessions!

No, I do not have plus size poses. I simply have poses for ✨bodies✨

Look in the mirror & repeat after me:

My body is a work of fucking art.
My body deserves to be shown off.
My body deserves to be embraced and loved exactly as it is.

You may not believe it now, but I promise every word is true 💖

I'm a boudoir photographer who does not have plus size poses. Here are 3 reasons why. “Do you have any plus size poses?”

Learning about what my clients struggle to love but WANT to see differently, and what they arent ready to embrace yet is an important part of my process! I just never assume the answers based on someone's size. I talk about this in depth on my substack too! open.substack.com/pub/everybou...

“Plus Size Poses” is code for “Poses to make someone look smaller.”

And that's why I don't have plus size poses in my boudoir studio.

Taking the time to turn off your phone and pour love into yourself is an act of resistance. Remember that.

Reminder: Stepping into your power and unapologetically taking up space is an act of resistance.