Kink tmi //
There is a fellow ace I met at a munch who m i g h t make a good play partner but I would want to ask them on a “date” to talk about the possibility a little more and that’s so scary!! I have trouble asking regular friends to do regular friend stuff!

Gimme the antboys and free my soul I wanna get lost in the sticky hole

I am unwell about antboys

Personal tmi //
God what if I just like. Went in the appropriate channel of the kink discord server and outlined the things I would like to try with the disclaimer that I still don’t know if I’d like it for real

I don’t have it in me to reread the whole thing tonight but I did read from the teapot on and I’m DEVASTATED. He is allowed to be a child!!!

I will also add that your writing as a whole taught me a lot about ways people can be intimate with each other that I had never even thought of as an option before

Seconding both of those yes wow

I could not possibly pick a favorite but I think often about nmj flogging Xichen while everyone marvels at what a pretty sub he is, AND about jgy teaching sizhui how to hit Xichen

I am sitting in zoom class reading rare kink buffet fills, WOW you guys are so talented

So I thought I had a squick but it turns out it’s just because I was working a job related to that and Your Job Is Rarely Sexy. It is. Not a squick anymore 🔥

Ace-spec dom who likes the satisfaction of making someone come, but entirely on their (the dom’s) terms. Which means no touching me, no kissing me, you will touch yourself exactly how I tell you to and you’ll love it.

Debauched replete wwx, his thighs dripping with cum and honey

Personal tmi //
My dom (adhd) is punishing me by not letting me come until I find one of my vibrator chargers (which I lost because of adhd)

Lwj tied up so he can’t just take what he wants and instead he has to use his words and *ask* and it’s excruciating

Lan qiren teaching sizhui how to hit him

Telling me physics facts that mess with my understanding of how the world works and make me feel totally unmoored and powerless would be a good kink thing, I’m only sort of joking

Mixed feelings about the munch but someone did remember my xiyao museum fic

At the queer munch I have to be like “I’m ace but I’m not a rope ace” because rope ace is SUCH a thing??

A woman holds herself in front of a field of tangled bodies and says "jeez I'm always so awkward at orgies." Perking up, she states "Oh Great! There's a dog!" It's a large muscular man in a pup mask. She kneels on the floor and strokes him under his chin.

Oh my god

I don’t know how to do an image description for this unintentionally erotic children’s book I’m sorry.
(isn’t “clouds and rain” a sex metaphor in Chinese?)

It has once again come to my attention…the soft core cloud book.

Therapy dom bullying someone into doing chores/taking meds/being kind to themselves, however…deeply DEEPLY appealing from both sides and maybe even one of the rare things that would work irl for me…

The thing about my original ocd porn was that I wrote it when my ocd was so bad that I missed an entire week of work, and making it hot was the only thing that took the edge off, and when I’m not in that deep mental pit I’m not actually into it.

Almost definitely the latter but if I keep Believing In Myself I can make it happen

Do I want to do (sex/romance/kink) or do I want to feel what other people feel when they do (sex/romance/kink)?

That is SO many words

So my original ocd story is…kind of great, actually. Maybe I can clean it up and find somewhere to share it.

And then sizhui wipes his mouth for him 🥺

Yesssssss