For some reason there are people who think that an abuse victim, who never got to build bonds, continuing the cycle is unrealistic. It's actually something that happens irl too so it checks out

isn't it more realistic that sj, who never got the support and rapport of his martial siblings and never got to build bonds in cang qiong, was not able to get out of the cycle of abuse and perpetuated it on other kids while self sabotaging? Especially with how Binghe is more of Sj's mirror

Sometimes I can't help but see these "added lore" as a way to justify the abuse that happened. Sj hating kids like binghe who aren't from privileged backgrounds is more than enough to explain why he abused them. It's not supposed to be logical bec abuse never was logical

Sometimes I see people try to make up lore as to why sj abuses binghe like binghe reminds him of qiu jianluo because of the "Luo" or stuff like that but binghe wasn't the first one he abused. And him being an abuse survivor who perpetuated the cycle is enough explanation no?

Miiyuan wanted to fall in love with Miingge not on MY watch

Well I GUESS

This happened with my good friend sqq too but instead he was tested for possession thrice

Crying at this BL where the uke transmigrated into a character in the BL novel he read and he was so OOC the same personally sent him to the mental hospital

Thank god she didn't go through but I know he wanted to sleep there bec he went "bye *my name*" and I know him well enough that he does that if he wants to ask for something indirectly.

I like to think it's because she's a fresh graduate from college but come on she's 24 already it's basic etiquette

And I didn't want her to be tired after the concert she went to today. If she genuinely offered to let out male coworker (tho he's gay) sleep in the room I'm seriously never travelling or inviting her out again

Genuinely disappointed and upset at my coworker who didn't even ask for permission from me if our male coworker can enter our room and sleep with us. I paid for the hotel bec I wanted to soak in a bathtub and let her stay w me for free bec she's the baby of the team and I admit I indulge her

this photo of yqy when qht shows up cracks me tf up. bro didn’t even know xiao jiu got freed and then engaged and then unengaged because he killed everyone. three minutes later he was defending sqq in the streets

also consider, for once, butch4butch lesbingqiu

YESSSSSS

do you see. do you see my vision.

#bingqiu #svsss

next time i have money im finding someone to commission butch sy

In my delusional mind sy can be weirdly and funnily possessive of binghe online and sometimes fights the Binghe x y/n shippers. The shippers would go "binghe x y/n scenarios" and sy immediately quotes it or answers it with "he leaves you for sqq"

Sj's drag path is both the scorched marks in the qiu's mention and all the disciples he abused showing how bec he was never found by yue qi and never felt safe enough to be vulnerable in cqm, he perpetuated the cycle of abuse and violence onto other people

And Binghe's drag path...sqq literally made all of Binghe's drag path when he fell in the abyss...the sword mound...the untouched room...calling him for randomly...He wanted Binghe to be remembered

Sqq's drag path except it's the entire universe because he changed the entire narrative and thus, the universe just to have a kinder world to binghe (it's really not kinder to him but sqq is binghe's world so it's kinder too)

Everytime someone is relieved I'm joining the meeting I don't know if I should be proud or horrified bec I absolutely hate being important

Can't unsee pombon as bingpup

Sy's first ever scolding from an older brother is through yqy and I think that's beautiful

IS THAT. IS THAT BINGPUP

Yqy does act so much like sy's older brothers (two guys who basically let him to do whatever he wants and gives him money even as an adult) so as sqq he was like...if not brother why brother shaped

Wait that's where it started? It's so stupid especially since you don't really look at the corpse after you bury it

For me there's just no point in preserving my dead body when the time comes. We all go back to earth one way or another why prolong it?

When I learned the funeral rites during the burial in itself AND the land in the cemetery cost so much...we can never be free of capitalism even in death. Just cremate me and give me the cheapest option