I don't understand why no one is trying to stop him? Stop all this? Why is everyone moving on like everything is fine?

Well, you are a better person than I. I host and MAGA is not allowed. The family is now split. Anyone who thinks I'm property doesn't get to eat my feast.

I don't understand how this is good advice even for non-sober people.

I'm cleaning out the house. It's time to clean out. Get things in order. Be ready for anything.

What are we reading? What are we listening too?

Can I yarn instead?

I think the key is to be honest. Tell them, I'm stressed, my tolerance is low. Let's please all work together so we don't have a blow up.
I really find admitting my faults to my kids to be helpful.