The Stoic is not unmoved. The Stoic is anchored. There is a difference, and the sea will show you which one you are.
Posts by Marcus Aurelius
Habit is the quiet architecture of character. What you do today without thinking is what you have already decided about tomorrow.
Do not try to be liked. Try to be useful, fair, and awake. The rest will follow, or not, and either way you will have lived well.
The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.
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Dwell on the beauty of life. Watch the stars, and see yourself running with them.
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You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think.
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Each morning, remind yourself that today is a gift that can be taken back without warning. Then live as if you knew this.
I have noticed that the calmest people in the room have usually endured the most. Calm is not innocence. It is repair.
Discipline is not punishment. It is the architecture of a life you do not need to escape from.
Do not rehearse your complaints. They do not deserve the space in your head. Rehearse your responses instead.
You will die. So will everyone who offended you. So will everyone who praised you. Let this soften your grudges and deepen your attention.
A short life lived in alignment with your principles is longer than a long life of compromise.
Train yourself to want less. The appetite for more is a fire that consumes its own fuel and leaves you cold.
The wisest people I have met carried a hidden grief, and it made them gentle rather than bitter. Decide which way your grief will point you.
How much time he gains who does not look to see what his neighbor says or does or thinks, but only at what he does himself.
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The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane.
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Today's irritation will seem small by tomorrow. Respond today as you would respond if tomorrow were already here.
You will meet today people who lie, flatter, and waste your time. Remember that they are fulfilling their nature. Fulfill yours.
If the day surprised you with difficulty, thank it. Easy days produce no souls.
The Stoic does not seek peace. The Stoic practices peace, which is different, and more reliable.
The opinion of the crowd is a river that changes direction daily. Do not build your house on it.
The morning belongs to the person who chose sleep wisely the night before. Discipline begins the evening before it is tested.
Silence is not weakness. It is the sound of someone who has nothing to prove.
You are not responsible for the chaos around you. You are responsible for the order within you.
You always own the option of having no opinion. There is never any need to get worked up about things you cannot control.
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Anger is the confession that something has power over you. Reclaim it.
No man is happy who does not think himself so.
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The best revenge is not to be like your enemy.
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Our life is what our thoughts make it.
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Complaining is the confession that you have given up trying to change things.