As soon as I typed this I thought “but maybe not within the next four years…😬”

It’s okay! We were strangers. Maybe next time 😊

Hi Link! I’ve been openly trans masc/gender non conforming for 21 years, and finally got top surgery last Monday 🎉 I’m very happy to receive questions or give advice. Free feel to reach out here or via text.

Time makes you stronger, but grief never gets easier. Valentine's Day makes me think of wry smiles, pumpkin with yogurt, hot chocolate, and kisses that make time stop. It's been five years since the first time I saw the sunrise with you next to me and I love you just as much. #grief #partnerloss

I have been summoned. 🦇 I am in DC and always happy to make friends.

I never got to try his highly bragged about apple pie recipe. Today I made a rhubarb pie with him, and our food porn, in my thoughts. I’d kill for one more text message.

I made farro and arugula salad with salmon. The salmon was over cooked by your standards. I miss you.

Today would be three years, by the Jewish calendar, since I lost my best friend and partner. It doesn’t feel real. I find myself desperately missing our “food porn” rituals – in which we’d send each other pictures and critiques of every recipe.

Trying to get more serious about my poetry writing but it feels like a Sisyphean task.

Free cat. Won’t allow you to game and will lay on the keyboard until you pet her.

You’re so nice. Thanks. I’m a little bit of an elegant train wreck at the moment, so forgive me if all I post are existential memes.