It's been hard to accept people as they show themselves to me. I always think I can make someone like me more if I was just more xyz and less myself. I'm not doing that anymore. 24/7 takers are no longer welcome in my inner circle. I'm no longer giving all of myself for the approval of others

My friends care about me & will find time to talk to me. I never expect anyone to caretake me, be at my beck & call, or respond right away. And people in my life that know I've been drowning w my dogs cancer dx, divorce, and the world and choose to turn away from me are not ppl I want around me 💘

So, if we talk and you care for me, that's great. I'm so happy to have you. If you don't want to talk to me because my life is too messy for you and you have your own priorities? That's ok! We're not friends, tho.

I feel like I lost my community of 10 years overnight. I've heard people talk about fair weather friends and club friends but I tricked myself into thinking because people are queer, nd, kinky that they might be better than that. Here to admit that I was wrong.

Might fuck around and start accepting that people are who they show me they are

OPETHOPETHOPETHOPETH

I'm right

"Submissive's support munch" you mean codependents anonymous

we love a katseye mention

Also I got maybe an even better Christmas gift

NAKIRI BABY

Its me, I'm the podcast bro you're after

I apologize to everyone who saw my boyfriend bringing me my microphone setup and thought he was a podcast bro that must have been very traumatizing

Absolutely EPIC Christmas gift

another friend is having a baby

Me, internally, while talking about cnc machines: don't say connoncon machine don't say connoncon machine don't say nonconmachine

someone told my mom about my poly situation (namely that I'm dating people besides my spouse) without asking me so I'm going to send her this

me describing my bf: chains and bugs

Come say hi to me and our surprise guest dungeon host 👀🔗🪲

Wednesday!!!

"...Bye."

getting a text at 2am from my boyfriend to wish me a happy Earth, Wind, and Fire day

If he wanted to he would 👏👏👏

my bf is coming back to town can I get a wahoo

(to the tune of the mlp opening): my little short staackk

It is the weekend my dudes

take this

I'M COMING

Honestly this is why those Tea groups are so important they're like a oujia board that either points to "he has a wife and will beat you" or "ooh he's cute have fun, sis"