What do general pediatrics and outpatient palliative care have in common? (Thoughts from a palliative doc who started medical life thinking heād be a general pediatricianā¦)
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Posts by Nathan Gray, MD, FACP
And we close with a ātop tenā list of cautions and guidance for those encountering humor in clinical work day to dayā¦
We listed some examples of how this plays out (using my own art)ā¦
In our paper, we suggest the most important thing to consider is the source and the object⦠whoās making the humor and what is it about?? Some source/object combos are off limits, some high risk, some generally safe.
It may seem obvious, but patients get more leeway than docs!
Patients use humor for coping, to communicate around sensitive topics, to build rapport, or to reassert control in scary timesā¦
clinicians also use humor to cope, build rapport, or even lighten the mood. But whenās the wrong time or the right time!?
How do those caring for folks with serious illness navigate humor?? Patients and family often bring humor to encounters, and many say they appreciate it from providersā¦
Happy to have paired up w PC SW Melissa Rizzollo to write some fun guidance for @j-palliativemed.bsky.social #hapc
When none of the discharge options fitsā¦
I never promise we can make all the pain go away, as there are parts of medical suffering weāll probably never tame, but I love the wins when weāre able to make a difficult day feel a bit more bearable.
Answer data questions with data. Answer emotion and meaning questions with empathy and humilityā¦
Magic in the air ā¤ļøš Happy Hospital Valentineās tomorrow!
Of course! the second of my two posts (as well as the longer explanation on IG) mention those situations⦠when a discussion/answer is urgent. :)
Some of the times Iāve missed the mark the worst in serious illness conversations over the years have been when I barged into a new topic without specifically asking permission first. #hapc
In situations where a patient says they canāt handle a pressing diagnosis/decision that needs urgent action, I ask if thereās a family member they trust to handle the info and decision, if not, I try to give them some control over details of how info is shared before proceeding. #hapc
When discussing serious health issues with patients, itās crucial to ask permission each time a new sensitive topic is broached⦠people may have specific needs, timing, or preferences theyād like to voice before you āgo there.ā
Oh my, I had almost forgotten about that one. That one puts me in real dad-joke territoryā¦
(Family meeting nemeses...) Reminded of this one rounding on inpatient palliative consults today⦠the hospital can be a busy, noisy place. ā¤ļø #hapc
My annual holiday greeting for those working the hospital this season⦠š
Historically on Twitter and IG, still fairly active on Instagram:
www.instagram.com/inkvessel/
One of my favorite types of cartoon to draw for a break from a heavy day is āmedical-term-brought-to-lifeā¦ā
:) Yes, definitely!! (I think real empathy is often a driver, Just never want the tissues to become a disruption rather than a kindness⦠have witnessed some very silly situations where the whole moment was railroaded by clinicians like myself jumping around try to find them!)
Thanks so much for the kind words!! Makes me happy to hear the art is useful!
Hooray! Youāre here too!!! Thanks for saying āhi!ā
In honor of Bluesky migration, Iām going to try to regularly re-post some of my favs from the archives for those here who donāt know me. This one on a valuable lesson I learned about tissues from @vickieleff.bsky.social (1/2)
#hapc #graphicmedicine
When I see @nathanagray.bsky.social has a new graphic narrative, I click. This collab with @fumikochino.bsky.social tells the important story of pre-auths, denial of care, and how patients suffer as a result.
Check out this powerful and heartbreaking piece by @fumikochino.bsky.social and @nathanagray.bsky.social on the cruelty of prior authorizations
www.usatoday.com/story/opinio...
The timing of this story is heated, with health insurance industry in the news, but I was honored to collaborate with @fumikochino.bsky.social and grateful to my patient and his family for the chance to draw/write about the pain of #priorauth for @usatoday.com .
www.usatoday.com/story/opinio...